It has been sometime since I updated this and I have learned a few things about Myself since then.
The Vanilla Me
I am a mother before anything else. I have very eclectic unique style blending goth, steampunk, cyber, industrial and punk styles all into one weird phenomena. I am waaaaaaay left of center and unusual and love every minute of it!!!! I am a true guys girl. If I was anymore like a guy, I would have my own dick, instead, I get to act like one when needed. I love metal music, big trucks, fast cars and a hot bike. I bleed pinstripes and stars... for the uneducated that means I am a diehard New York Yankees and Dallas Cowboys fan.
The Kinky Me
I strongly believe the best Doms have felt the whip and the best subs have used it!
For the past 16 years, I have identified Myself as a switch who favored her submissive side. After some very hard and harrowing experiences, I have found that label doesn't fit quite right. I have grown beyond being a switch. I am finding that because of these experiences My submissive side has become nearly nonexistent. There are still few who draw it out in me and ultimately, eventually i would love to find one that can. That side has been hurt and neglected for far too long and only Somone very special will be able to heal her. Until then she will lay near dormant, poking her head out when those special People come about. This has also had quite an effect on My Dominant side. It has shown Me the care, love and compassion it takes to have a person as Yours. The time You must invest in them. The way You must cherish and nurture them. I always knew You don't have to be a b*tch to be a Domme,but things I have learned made that point clear. I have taken a lot of time in Mentoring and Protecting others. I have heard some of the most unimaginable horror stories of abuse disguised as BDSM and of mistrestment of subs and slaves. I decided the knowledge I have could be beneficial to others and to help them help themselves. I want to make it very clear, those I protect, mentor and teach are in no way sexually or physically involved with Me. My job as Teacher, Protector and Mentor is to help them help themselves NOT to help them to make them Mine. I believe that is a breach of ethics and a violation of that person by an abuse of power to be involved with them in any way other than friendship.
I am currently protecting a few wonderful people
I am also mentoring a few people
I am currently training a couple to help their D/s relationship expand
I am also the Owner of My own BDSM House that rescues those harmed in the lifestyle.
Anything else Y/you want to know feel free to ask!