Collarspace.com

I want to find the one...someone who will make me more than I am. She is secure in who she is, intelligent, beautiful, intense, playful, and full of ideas. I am creative, bright, happy with life, and always ready for an adventure. I am passionate about music, food, and art. As a musician, I understand how deeply personal an experience making music can be, and I realize that this applies to nearly everyone in some way. Whether it is art, books, movies, great food...these are all opportunities to know people on a deep level. I am really intense and driven when it comes to work and my career, but otherwise I am extremely laid back. I am really spontaneous, and I only plan things in the most general way. I love to travel, but besides knowing what city I will be in on a given day, I don't need to know what is coming next. I would love to meet someone who is always challenging me to do something new. I'm on this site, because I'm fascinated with the concepts of control or loss of control. I don't know why this is a turn on for me, but it is a side of life I want to explore. I'm not excited by the idea of degradation, and pain is only interesting as a tool rather than an end in and of itself. To me the fascination is with giving up control as completely as possible.
Lonna
 
 Age: 30
  New York