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The name is fitting in a couple of ways, one being that I can be rather blunt in how I share my observations. That may be more of a Damm Yankee trait than mine? :-)
I didn't get to hung up on the Dom/Domme sub slave labels and checked Switch.
I will say that I would never be someones slave so we can cross that one off the list. In the end am not looking to be with multiple people so am not here seeking to be a Dom to one sub and then a sub to a Domme the next or join a poly house.
But in my search to see who I fit well with for the long haul??? I could well be someones Dominant one weekend and then play a sub the next...but for me as a rather Dominant personality and figure it's unlikely that I would be satisfying to a Domme as Her sub.
Switching with the same person attracts me the most, both in the play or bedroom area as well as day to day life.
A submissive who was very opinionated, strong willed and confidant in her abilities who was looking for someone to submit to rather than a doormat sub is a good match for Me.
As to a Domme the same applies :-) but it's sort of implied that You already have those qualities. We may fit if You were not looking for that doormat, cuckold, Strap-on, sissy etc...type sub.
I do have many qualities that are related to a good submissive in the Domme/sub relation. I am protective, think ahead to see that future needs are met, have a very strong service side, fix the car mow the lawn can cook ( more than grill) clean fix the roof paint the house build a deck etc...
So there are many things that could be considered "sub" qualities that are also just old fashion what the guy is supposed to do things even could be considered Dom qualities!!!!!
Maybe this rambling can give You a glimpse as to why I'm not so big on the labels as much as the interaction between the two of us.
Will be back to fill this in. Thanks for reading and playing along this far.
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