As I begin these entries I want some to know I do not reveal myself here not only for business reason but to prevent your own natural biases from ignoring the content that is them.
This site quite older than most would expect yet in most of my time here I realized many truths. We are a fragmented community torn apart by often those at the top seeking to take our information for their own gain and uses. Most lifestylers do not benefit from the commercialism of this place or other alternative dating sites. So you're at the mercy of people who quite frankly know that while they could deal with all the fakes, posers and timers simply won't cause it gets in the way of of business.
For those unfamiliar with the web get use to bullshit from fakes I've been on the web 23 years in it's infancy before html and other formats took off that even let sites like these existed. Even when it was irc, emails, gopher, bbs, and newsgroups those who could never make in RL because they simply put aren't true to themselves don't make it here. This doesn't apply to just one side of the spectrum but all. Yet there are plenty of people here legitimate even if misguided or inexperienced. Those who know shouldn't fight amongst the opportunities we have. We should align and in private when possible out those who seek to destroy our relationships between genuine submissive and slaves with those that seek us for money or to get a quick wank. We need to unite at all sites and create standards those who deny it have a game to play, axe to grind, or an agenda to be met out. We should call out the various predators who make us look bad due to their inexperience. Yet the mods here will hate this post. They know if they did what I mention it would kill all those precious ad sale they and their marketers need to keep their financial interests lined up. I met a few of my most intense loves and partners here so I see no reason to retreat. I plan to dig in and get rid of the trash bit by bit.
I make this post because our world is about to change in way that only ever happens once. You have a choice own your reality or let someone else do it, there are no go backs and you will be left to the mercy of what your heart truly desires.
The grooves of expression and ideas I've left here should be clear to some. Like or not I do not end this expecting a lot will come upon or will even realize the depths of what I will share. For those who do share with me your wisdom if you feel it can help me be it negative or positive every bit and byte makes and keeps the person I always am exactly that. |