I have been told that categorizing myself as a switch is not good in the BDSM scene. I imagine being bisexual is not good in the gay scene either. However, in my scene, it is where I am and I am quite happy being in the middle, knowing the sides that make me who I am.

I offer a uniqueness that many do not have in that I am also in a polyamorous (part-time) relationship that gives me a different perspective on relationships than most. My partners know that I am posting this and know that this is another part of my world. Some of which is used in my poly relationship to the joy of us all.

I am primarily a Dom and only want subs who are serious about submitting to me. They may be asked to service my partners but should know that my enjoyment will come first. I like to take it slow and understand my subs, allowing them a chance to know who they are and where they are going. It is not all about sex but sex is a part of it all.

As a sub I am willing to submit to the right person in ways that will make them shiver with excitement. I believe that being treated as a sub is a gift that one needs to appreciate and the submission that goes along with it is the subs show of appreciation. I take it seriously and expect my Dom/Domme to do the same.

I am quite intellectual therefore, I expect the same in s/D. I stay in the present moment and help others to do the same. It is all about the present that I enjoy and sharing that from a D/s perspective gives me energy.

If you are interested either way, I require that I know you first before any relationship is started. Email me explaining why you think we would fit together. Tell me about yourself, your interest, your desires and the inner lining of your soul.

Email too if you are in a polyamorous relationship and let us share the mysteries of love in ways that most never get a chance to experience.