I am a dominant man who is, like most people here, looking for his counterpart in a submissive girl.
I have had several long, complicated relationships, all of them with strong elements of control in them, but only one actual slave. I am ready to love and commit once more to the right submissive woman.
I intend to find a woman who needs to live as an unconditional slave (TPE). She doesn't have to be experienced, but she should possess the following characteristics:
- She needs to have a strong service ethic, and be aroused by giving service.
- She needs to be scrupulously honest and capable of making and keeping a commitment.
- She needs to enjoy a moderately heavy to very heavy amount of S&M play and humiliation.
- She needs to have the grit, determination, and stubborness to carry out my orders even when she doesn't feel like it.
- She must either be a little girl or at least not averse to my taking a paternal role in her life.
- She needs to be realistically aware that once we are together for good, she will have no limits except for those I allow her, that she will have no control, and that her consent will be irrelevant.
Apart from these must-have needs, I would also like a girl who is spontaneous, emotionally reactive, spirited, extremely intelligent (I do not mean well-educated, although there is nothing wrong with that), and with a decent sense of humor.
Due to the fact that I work with children, I cannot afford to display my face to the entire world, but photos will be provided once we've determined basic compatibility. I do not look like Quasimodo, don't worry!
The age range I'm looking for is somewhere between roughly 35 and 55. However, if you think you're the perfect woman for me but are a little outside that age range, let's still talk.?
I have been dominant all my life, and have never had a non-D/s intimate relationship (why that is is an interesting story in itself). I am what some people call a micromanager (no, that doesn't mean I will choose your panties every day). It's not that I don't trust my slave to do the right thing without being told to, it's that I enjoy control so much that I will naturally take over every activity and situation.
I am not an "alpha male" personality by any means. I detest competition, to the point of having always sat out of competitive games in gym class at school even when threatened with failure of the class (I clearly remember my gym teacher's eyes bulging out of his head as he tried in vain to coerce me into joining the basketball game). I prefer either cooperative or solitary activities, such as hiking, camping, canoeing, horseback riding, skiing, cooking, reading, doing research, playing MMORPG's, Dungeons & Dragons, traveling, and eating out at interesting little ethnic restaurants.
I can best be described as a benevolent despot. I love submissive women, and have always helped them wherever I found them. I am generally a very empathic person, but particularly so with submissive women. I have a special talent for conflict resolution, and can easily see myself as a successful hostage negotiator--not that I'd want to be one, particularly. I have a remarkably calm personality and my moods don't swing. My sense of humor is especially attuned to the absurd (like most of the BDSM scene) and to stupid slapstick (the Three Stooges, Mr. Bean, Monty Python).
I drink, smoke and do drugs, but not in an out-of-control manner; if that seriously bothers you, good-bye.?