I admire a slave who:

Is free-spirited, needing control only from the one who owns her but otherwise earning the title of "headstrong" and even slightly "stubborn";

Is open-minded; not because she is politically correct or refuses to form judgements, but because she truly feels there is always more to learn about anything;

Is highly intelligent, not because everything she knows has been learned from a textbook, but because her mind is always asking questions and looking for ideas to play with;

Is unable to meet her potential without an owner: she doesn't feel right being in charge of herself and others, although if forced to she can cope with it at least for a while; she is unhappy being unowned even if she's putting up a brave front, and feels out of place until she has been taken in hand and controlled.


I am single, kind, cruel and perverted in numerous ways. If you understand this and relate to it, write to me.