Many people spend a great deal of their lives fighting their true nature. It’s not easy to define ourselves because there are so many aspects to each of us. Anyone who claims to always be dominant has to be lying-no one feels that he’s in control 100% of the time. Alternately, a submissive is not always submissive and there are times when she must take control.

Definitions are limiting, but unfortunately we have to put our needs and desires into words to find what we seek. I believe that there is a core to each of us that very few people get to see. We keep our desires, needs, wants and fantasies to ourselves because surely no one would understand. I seek the ultimate relationship in my life with a submissive woman who is confident, secure, comfortable with her needs and able to communicate those needs easily and effectively.

I seek a submissive, a partner, to truly know each other as no others know us. A lifelong relationship based on the idea of Domination and submission. Privately, we will define ourselves as we choose to define ourselves. Publically, people will notice that there is just something different about us-we are a little more attentive to each other than other couples and there is always an undercurrent of sensuality about us.

My nature is to be dominant. I am a strong, confident and successful man, but I don’t believe that being strong and being gentle are mutually exclusive concepts. I am outgoing, yet somewhat quiet. I rarely raise my voice and I thrive on serenity in my life and my home. I won’t fight for your submission. I expect it to be given freely and lovingly and only to me.

I am not seeking a doormat, someone with no opinions of her own. I love conversations and am particularly attracted to someone who challenges my opinions. I seek a submissive who is satisfied with her life-she is accomplished, successful in her chosen field, enjoys her work and her friends, but is missing that one key component to truly be happy.

I am a successful, intelligent 42 year old man who respects women and loves femininity. I am muscular, handsome, work out regularly. I love to read and write. I am a kind and compassionate person seeking a kind and compassionate person. I am well aware of my own imperfections and do not have any problem admitting that I am wrong or that I don't know something (except directions, of course) I do have pictures available but do not wish to post online.

I am experienced, but it has been a number of years since I was involved in a D/s relationship.