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Hetero Male Dominant, 49,   , Netherlands
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A new year..a new profile text. Nothing complicated though. I think most profiles are rubbisg. There are just a few select people that can describe themselfs..who can caprutre themselfs in words. The others are just describtions of who they want to be. Just feel free to write about what ever you want. I am not activily searching, but you never know who you meet. Even when it are just friends. I promise I reply....even if it is a simple no. But I think every one deserves an answer who send a message. enjoy your day. Damian












 Dominant Male



 6' 2"

 99 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female


Online Romance

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)


 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Sensation Play (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Watersports (Expert)

 Horror Movies (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Heavy Metal Music


 Movies (Expert)

 Begging (Expert)


 Needle Play (Beginner)


 Historical Shows (Expert)

 Newspapers (Expert)

 Web Surfing (Expert)



 Paranormal Phenomena (Expert)

 1950s Lifestyle

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Rock Music

 Atheism (Expert)

 Boxing (Expert)


 Breast Play


 Fisting (Beginner)

 Public Play


 Wax Play


 True Crime (Expert)




 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)


 Old Guard

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Alternative Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Industrial Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Body Building

 Kick Boxing



 Cane / Crop Discipline

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 TV Sports

 Conservative Politics




 Shibari (Beginner)

 Hard Limits:



 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing (Beginner)

 Female Supremacy


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Journal Entries:
5/15/2022 3:41:03 AM

saydates - dating for the modern world.

I guess it was in 1900. 

5/14/2022 7:25:02 AM

A slave should never long for punishment.

Punishment is something you get when you fail. And your purpose is to please, not to fail.

If you mean you like pain...say so. 

5/14/2022 6:04:36 AM

I guess I have to focus on tattoos. Porn stars are full of them.

5/14/2022 3:35:12 AM

You join a community to feel at home, to discover the judgement is even bigger inside.

5/11/2022 10:14:54 AM

Any one that has hai fever as a fetish or kink?

5/11/2022 10:08:45 AM

Vanilla people are sometimes more loyal and kinkier than the kink people.

Don't only look in the lifestyle for might be disappointed later..if you didn't fish in the big ocean.

5/11/2022 10:06:20 AM

(not) Funny how some Doms show their young subs naked on here, but do not show their own face.

How responsible.

5/8/2022 5:58:12 AM

you are not a slave when you do sessions

5/3/2022 11:37:07 AM

I don't own and control a slave with equipment and toys.

I use my mind, hands and sometimes my belt.

5/2/2022 11:35:43 AM

Does your taste for music reflect in the way you do BDSM?

5/2/2022 10:07:55 AM

Dear CS,


can I have a filter that selects profiles that are Pro, True and Real?


And one for smiling people. 

5/2/2022 10:07:26 AM

How do you maintain a relation when you can not maintain communication

5/1/2022 11:23:07 AM

I don't block people. They just do not deserve the attention

5/1/2022 1:14:40 AM

reminder for myself:  spell check

5/1/2022 1:13:49 AM

Don't trust people on words, but on deeds

5/1/2022 1:11:52 AM

why does time go so fast lately

4/27/2022 3:43:02 AM

Please update your profiles.

Unexperienced for 20 years uhmm..hopeless. GIve up if you can not learn.

Being 20 for 6 years in a row...nice..but no

4/24/2022 2:11:48 AM

I don't like profiles that read liek a CV or a superhero description

4/23/2022 7:27:01 AM

I like broken toys

4/21/2022 1:26:12 PM

Do you think people in the lifestyle are nicer or worse than vanilla people? 


I think they feel better and special..making them worse..

4/21/2022 1:22:38 PM

The reader will experience you different from what you have written in your profile.

4/19/2022 12:28:24 PM

so many methods to communicate, so few that can communicate

4/19/2022 12:27:12 PM

finished your chocolate eggs?

4/15/2022 8:55:37 AM

yes..nice butt..but actually I want your soul

4/15/2022 4:17:58 AM

I like females in dresses and skirts.

4/9/2022 5:24:11 AM

Please do not contact me if you can not maintain a friendship or communication.

4/8/2022 10:59:43 AM

Don't trust words like real, good and true.

People who are, can show it.

4/8/2022 10:58:05 AM

we often promise more then we can deliver

4/2/2022 5:59:11 AM

You can write what ever you want in your profile. If the other think differently about you, it doesn't matter

3/26/2022 9:39:01 AM

Females can you keep your cocks in your pants on the pictures.

3/24/2022 1:19:55 PM

As a slave your porfile can be full of wishes and fantasies. But be about what slaves are.

Once collared, all your lists do not count. You serve. No serve..or get punished.

Perhaps you are a sub ..that is ok. But do not take the title slave lightly

3/19/2022 1:21:58 PM

Are you special, because others are less?

3/13/2022 4:11:56 AM

I have to laugh always when people have in their profile " If I do not answer we do not fit ".

20 years later, they are still searching on here.

Time for some self evaluation and adjusting.

3/6/2022 10:47:37 AM

Natural submissive or Dominant...what does that mean.

Do you suck random people in the supermarket..or whip them?

2/22/2022 12:11:43 PM

It is interesting how people use the word " real", but can not answer if they are " real" themselves.

2/18/2022 8:57:32 AM

So you are very young slave and want to be locked up in a cellar for the rest of your live.

Did you ever read your own profile?

2/17/2022 10:40:35 AM

If you enjoy punishment, you never have been punished.

2/15/2022 11:50:52 AM

We are so special....that no one fits as a good partner.

So we keep searching

and searching

and searching




sucks so much that no one is as special.

2/13/2022 3:37:34 AM

Slave or should communicate and be proactive to eachother.

2/12/2022 10:43:26 AM

I am not supprised communication is missing in many lists

2/12/2022 4:10:16 AM

I come here to often.

I can predict which picture belongs to which name.

1/29/2022 5:27:35 AM

Because I do not send you dick pics, doesn't mean I am a female pretending to be a dude.

1/22/2022 8:03:38 AM

Cleaner my block and hidden list 

Didn't know CS had so many members.

1/22/2022 7:13:36 AM

BDSM must be a dream for shrinks.

Daddies and adult baby girls...fat females who call themselves pigs and worthless.

There is space for every one.


I hope someday we can read the stories behind the fetish.

1/22/2022 7:07:52 AM

I wonder why dommes show more nudity then slaves or subs.

Must be because it is part of their job.

1/18/2022 11:52:57 AM

Are you afraid of what you might find?

1/15/2022 10:29:59 AM

so many peopel online on saterday evening...horny or lonely?

1/8/2022 4:07:59 AM

covid and bdsm are not good partners

1/6/2022 11:49:54 AM different is this fresh new year till now?

1/2/2022 5:33:29 AM

{#emotions_dlg.jumping} it took only 2 hours to get my new profiel text approved ...thank you CS

12/31/2021 1:58:32 PM

have a good new year A/all

12/31/2021 8:36:26 AM

It seems the narcists are searching for ever.

12/26/2021 12:17:41 PM

All people are beautiful in one way or an other. If I do not see it, some one else will.

12/25/2021 1:39:15 AM

no 50 shades please. I prefer black and white with the glow of deep red fire.

12/24/2021 2:21:14 PM

perv is like is in the eye of the beholder

12/24/2021 1:42:33 PM

I see a lot of slaves calling themselves slut.

That is fine..but being a slave takes way more.

12/22/2021 11:15:18 AM

happy holidays to the kind people

12/12/2021 2:40:16 AM

BDSM people are so elite, they can not even respond to a compliment.

12/9/2021 10:47:05 AM

it seems in bdsm no one agrees how to do bdsm

12/5/2021 8:23:12 AM

who learns better...the new or the experienced?

12/5/2021 7:10:23 AM

I always reply. It might be short, but I refuse to be an online asshole who can not answer people who try to contact you in a decent way.

It is after all a community...not a shades of grey dating site.

11/30/2021 10:26:19 AM

Fine dining before or after anal?

11/30/2021 10:10:02 AM

How much are we really of our profile

11/27/2021 3:53:18 AM

Lot of girls from eastern europe..that are single with kids.

Have seen that before in the past.

11/27/2021 3:52:20 AM

The word "real" is used mostly to look better then others.

Instead of working hard to be better yourself, you blame others for being less. Interesting how that works.


11/24/2021 1:15:03 PM

Funny how people think a conversation is a one way action.

Then when you do not talk anymore..ask if you are not interested anymore.

11/24/2021 1:14:22 PM

after I saw your tits, I emmediately thought about ' fine dinning" 

11/24/2021 9:18:25 AM

only the people you agree with are real

11/20/2021 11:08:48 AM

" just looking for friends" 

shows pictures of tits, spread cunt and toys.

Just liek we did at school when we looked for friends


11/12/2021 2:04:07 AM

Remember...intelligent people do not need to mention they are intelligent.

They mean they practice narcissism.

11/10/2021 9:22:59 AM

if you describe yourself as perfect, you will sooner fail and disappoint

11/1/2021 12:05:25 PM



Illusory superiority


10/29/2021 5:02:03 AM

for those that mix up slave and sub all the time and contact me


sub> you can have a whole list of wishes and don'ts

slave>>> your list should be very very short, close to non existent

kajira>>>>>throw your list away...

10/27/2021 12:33:41 PM

A Master is a dominant.

A dominant is not always a Master.

10/23/2021 12:58:24 PM

"by day I am a professional"


by night batman?

10/21/2021 5:30:47 AM

you can read in the profile that someone is here for attention or to really serve

10/21/2021 2:36:16 AM

I really wonder if peopel understand what they ask or look for.

I know fantasies make your cock hard and cunt wet...but torture and being locked up 24/7 for the rest of your crazy

10/19/2021 11:10:09 PM

Funny how times change.


In the past people showed their face on here..and it took months before you saw a breast.

Now people show their toy filled asses, their pierced tits en spread cunts....and it takes ages to see a face

10/19/2021 12:18:13 PM

To not ruin my lovely compact profile text....I put some things here;


-I prefer those who are born female. 

-I am not looking..I prefer to have friends or just capture a slave.

-Not interested in littles and those who look for a daddy. It is not my thing.

-If an animal has been inside you, please move along.

-If you are here to roleplay..I am not the one to talk too.

-If you want to talk about opinions/views etc..that is fine. I reply

-If you have a question..just shoot

-If you are so special, you wouldn't be looking online for a partner ( and not for all those years)

-Netherlands is the country, Amsterdam is just a city. And the Dutch live in the Netherlands...not in Germany

10/19/2021 12:04:43 PM

Wow they are back. The best way to learn about people instead of reading their fantasy profiles about how good and special they are.


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