Halloween is coming.   Every year we do something special, since it's such an opportunity to be exactly who we are openly.   This year, we have something very fun planned.   Some of you are going to dress up as sluts, or you want to.  So we're going to provide the opportunity to be exactly that.  You dress up in your favorite slut wear, and I'll provide a very safe neutral office space for you to go trick or treating.  Get on your knees, open your mouth, and I'll watch while you use that pretty mouth to get a treat from My pet.  Ultra safe, discreet, d/d free, and extremely reliable.  Tire kickers and "I wish I lived closer" please don't write.  I get fifty of those a day.  So, ready to be a slut?

Subs...  Please.  Writing and saying "I wish you were closer" is nice, but don't be offended if I don't answer the 100 messages that say that every week.  Also, renegotiating what I'm looking for in your first message may not go well either.  "How about you do this instead?" isn't something any Domme is going to indulge.  So, to be CLEAR:  I absolutely get off making male subs play together for My pleasure and entertainment.  I love the fact that they're so horny and eager to please Me that they'll do prety much whatever I want.  "Bulls" do not fit well into that dynamic and I'm not looking for a cuckhold situation either.  Truly?  You'd have an infinitely better chance of getting My attention if you asked for an 'audition' that involved being interviewed by Me with My well trained and obedient pet making you feel... welcome.

Okay boys.  Tonight.  Thursday.  8 pm.  Looking for a sub or two fir a brief meeting.   Safe.  Relaxed.   VERY enjoyable.   No counteroffers or reschedules.  Write for details.  

When you ask what I'm looking for and I take the time to answer that, your next reply shouldn't be a counteroffer or an negotiation.   

Ok boys.   Look, if you're "visiting the area" or "travel here for work several times a year", stop writing to lifestyle Dommes hoping for casual playdate while you're in town.  Contact a pro, no hassle, enjoy.  

I'll never understand why Dommes dont work together more.  A network would be SO much fun. 

I have to wonder...  who calls themselves a submissive, then starts their first email with "so, you like _____ ?"  Guys. Please.   Educate yourselves on how to approach a Domme properly.   Less porn, more FLR literature.  

I'm a bit surprised that it's this difficult to find someone local who doesn't want a Dominant Woman to order him to drop his pants and order another sub to "welcome" him with his mouth under Her supervision.  

In the last 6 weeks I've received over 400 messages.  Thank you everyone.   However, 99% aren't local and the rest are a lot of "how are u mistress", etc.   I've tried responding to as many as I can to be polite, but this has become unrealistic.  

if you are local and fit ALL my criteria and know how to write to a Domme, I will respond.   Everything else is going to have to be deleted.  

Other Dommes with an established profile are always welcome to write.  

Alright boys, I'm looking for a unicorn.   I've never found one.  

i'm looking for a submissive gay or very bi TOP.  Finding a male top is very easy.   Finding one who will obey my instructions at all times and be submissive to Me?  In ten years I've never found one.  I'm not looking for a switch, or a bull, or any of that.  MUST BE:  local. Obedient.  Gay or very bi.  disease/drug/drama free.  Available on Sunday afternoon/evening.  age/body type/endowment are irrelevant.  Good hygiene, local, obedience, and a clean bill of health are what I require.   If you fit ALL of that, you will enjoy a great deal of pleasure.  

To the other Dommes out there.  Hello!  

I would like to extend an invitation to other Dommes who would be interested in participating in his training and perhaps finding whatever uses you may have for him.  His schedule is quite flexible, and we get together once or twice a week.   ALSO...  I enjoy taking him for rides with him blindfolded in the passengers seat in panties.   Its something we started during covid.  I would very much like to park somewhere and strike up a conversation with another Domme and make him feel terribly uncomfortable.  Any suggestions on where we could park on a Sunday or Monday evening?

It seems I need to be MORE direct.  I need a male sub, LOCAL, gay or bi, for bi training for my pet.  THAT'S ALL.  I will not be responding to anything else.  

I get a lot of messages from all over the country and the world.   Due to the number of responses I get, I'm really only looking at three things.   Are you gay or bi, are you submissive, and are you from New England.  After that, I read to see if you know how to write to a Domme.  Having said that, there must be a few good little boys and gurls out there who fit that description who would like to take part in something enjoyable.   Let me know!

I'm looking for very obedient bi local men who would like to participate in a quick, fun project.  This will be for a Sunday night in May.  Write for details. 

I think it's time to clarify what I am looking for.  I am primarily interested in someone LOCAL.  While I appreciate the messages from all over the globe, I get so many I can't respond to all of them.  Also, while I appreciate that subs have things they would like to find, I'm here to find what I'm looking for.  ideally? I'd love to talk to another FemDom or FLR couple, or an extremely submissive BiMM or GM.  I'm not looking for games or someone who's going to flake out repeatedly.  I truly enjoy seeing how eager male pets are to please a woman, and in particular I want to see My pet drop to his knees and welcome a new playmate.