(Female body, male mind.)
I'm Oliver – you can call me Vali. I'm a transman, a switch, and a sadist, with a slight penchant for crossdressing. I'm in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend, Dani (not around this website). I'm primarily looking for a Dominant (pref. male) play partner and friends. I enjoy art and writing and general aesthetic. Every therapist and every dear friend of mine's got the truth of it: I'm a unique individual. Yes, we're all one as special as the next, but I'm often found in need of a touch more patience and a touch more soft-handedness than the average humanoid. With that out of the way: Hi, my name's Oliver. I started hormone replacement therapy on November 15th, 2013, and have officially reached male hormone levels. I prefer masculine pronouns (he/him/his) despite the occasional dress or tights or bows or skirts you might find me in. I'm a little weird, my humor is dark, and people tell me I talk too loud. My home is a nest of people in a middleground of their lives -- that time spent looking for work and discovering who we are and sitting around at the computer for hours at a time. Currently, my girlfriend and I have two vanilla roommates and one mother living with us, and have reversed the previous power-exchange relationship we attempted... that aside, the both of us are fully functioning and doing well together, as usual. I'm still testing the waters of Spokane's BDSM scene, and have been looking into the munches and other meet-ups that occur locally, though my social phobia keeps me on the fringes. I'm always looking for more friends and would be happy for contact from other people just looking for open-minded friendship and interesting conversation – I'd really enjoy finding other not-necessarily-sexual play partners, too. Our house is full and we lack both a vehicle and disposable income, which may limit how far we can go for playdates; thanks for understanding. Objectification, humiliation, sissification/crossdressing, and ageplay are the kinks I most enjoy receiving, with a minor amount of experience in all of them except sissification. When it comes to playing the Dominant role, I enjoy sadism, crossdressing, consensual non-consent, and -as always- ageplay. I prefer being submissive to men and have trouble being Dominant over cisgendered guys; I'm interested in finding a Dominant to play with. I really want to experiment with ponyplay, but I haven't found anyone who is equally interested – if you are or know someone who is, please send them my way. My hard limits are under-the-bed restraints, scat, breast fondling/touching/torture/bondage/anything, tickling, watersports (wetting is the exception). I don't generally like texting or talking on the phone, so I would prefer keep that until we have plans to meet in-person. I am, however, willing to share my screennames for Astra, AIM, Yahoo!, MSN, or Google Talk. For those interested, here's my ToyDirty wishlist: http://toydirty.com/w/VALILIST1 And I'd be happy to provide photos and/or video for anyone who got me anything.