Hi, We are a domme/sadomasochist couple living in south central WA who are very active sexually, on Fetlife dot com, and in the local bdsm community. We have very complete profiles on Fet under Flyfisher-3c and lachme. Rather than spend a lot of time recreating those here, I would suggest that you look at them there. I, the male half, do most of the communication for the two of us online - she calls me her social secretary - but we share information and have no secrets from each other.