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| PLEASE NOTE: Please read the profile to the end before firing off a Message. I don't use the chat facility (or answer one-liners) with anyone but people I know well.
Improved, rested and repaired Fluffy now ready to face the world again.
I'm enjoying life as a singleton right now but I want someone to share my life, the laughs, the hugs, the love and the filth. Whilst I can't imagine having a vanilla relationship again, the vanilla stuff is important to me.
I'd like to meet someone male, capable of committing, of caring, of nurturing and guiding. Someone within 50 miles or so of me, aged between 40 and 55 (give or take...), 100% Dom (sorry switches), someone who is prepared to find out about me in the style of an old fashioned courtship.
About the pervy me:
Fluffy I'm not - it was meant to be ironic....
I may be a sub but I'm not a doormat. I am opinionated, fiesty, strong willed, hot-headed and passionate about the things that matter to me. That doesn't mean that the right look won't reduce me to a compliant quivering jelly.
I have a hard limit list as long as your arm and major squicks include blood, cutting, needles, staples, scat, asphyxiation, masks and watersports. Oh and bananas. Shudder.
My preferences list doesn't cover everything but includes.... compliance, servitude, vulnerability, anticipation, being given instructions, tasks, inspections, especially of the Clothed Male, naked (ok, corsetted) female kind. I have a passion for 50s style underwear; waspies, deep suspender belts etc..
About the vanilla me:
This list gives you an idea of my likes and loves. In no particular order: Western Highlands of Scotland, 60s Soul and R&B, my dogs, Jack Vettriano, gardening, live music, classic cars, all things Art Deco, Ray Liotta (lookalikes are very welcome), good architecture, unspoilt beaches, Simon Pegg, log fires, good food, early 80s music, Charles Rennie Macintosh, woodlands, travel, Antony Gormley.
I'm intelligent but not academic. I'm a bit of a geezer bird, choosing to hang out with guys at classic car shows over girls in shopping malls. Apparently I look younger than my years (and I'm tired of seeing guys around my age sniffing around 20-somethings) so I've decided I'm going to start lying about my age. I am now 42. I may be 42 for some time....
I'm either 'short & fat' or 'petite & curvy' - a size 16/18 - depends on how you like your women, I guess. And anyway, curvy bottoms are more spankable, allegedly. Please don't try to change me, I need someone who will want me for who I am, not what they can shape me in to.
For those charming guys who like to shoot off abusive messages, usually from across the Atlantic, yes I KNOW I have a huge ass. Fortunately a lot of guys love it. If you don't like it, don't look at it.
I'm vegetarian but I wouldn't expect a prospective partner to be, nor would I foist my preferences on them. I do a great roast dinner despite being veggie.
I'm a bit of a smoking facist (sorry, smokers DO smell of tobacco 24/7, a Polo in the mouth doesn't mask the smell on hair, skin, clothes etc) so would not entertain a relationship with a smoker.
I have two elderly dogs (10 and 16) who are a major part of my life. This means I have to consider their needs when planning nights out or weekends away. If you don't 'get' that, if you're allergic to dogs or have a dislike, please move along...
I'm happy to memo with anyone ON A FRIENDS BASIS who has bothered to read my Profile properly, who doesn't write in txt spk, who can manage a memo consisting of more than one line/word. Please don't ask me to tell you more about me when I have a mahoooosive profile and you have two lines. If you want to know more about me, read all this waffle, first.
Having a Profile of your own helps enormously; I don't feel comfortable talking to someone with no Profile and no Photo, sorry.
I am not interested in being anyone's dirty secret, or spending my Christmasses alone, so please don't expect me to consider you as my next Domly one if you're married or in a relationship. If I was to enter into a serious relationship, eventually I would want it to be a monogamous one on both sides. I've seen too many 'poly' car crashes to want to be part of one.
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