Greetings,
First of all, I am a 5'10", large woman. Yep, BBW, large, big woman
with long, curly hair and blue eyes.
Not your thing? Kindly move on, and I wish you well.
As my name states, I'm a mix of hard and soft, pleasure and pain, naughty and nice. I love sensation and sensuality in its many forms and don't believe it needs to be defined by one set of rules. What works with one partner can go horribly awry with another, so being open to the experience is a better state for me.
I will say that I am usually on the submissive end, tend to be compliant and like a partner to dictate the play. I have dominant moments, but they will never be my main focus. I list myself as Bi, but with women, I tend to take a more passive role for their play.
Notice I use the word, play? I believe sex should be fun. It can be intense, focused, soft, rough and everything from the kinky to the vanilla, but if it's not fun for all involved, then it's not worth it for me. So if you are one with very set ideas of rules and decorum, like your women demure, quiet and insecure, I'm not for you.
I am for you if you are the adventurous type who likes to get creative. I like a bit of kink, and am usually happy to go along for the ride. For those who like to explore and play with their toys, I enjoy being of use. I love floggers and spankings as much as I enjoy lingerie and feathers; they all lend themselves to different sensations.
One thing. If you're more than an hour away, then I am always happy to make new online friends. I have no desire for long drives home, 2 weeks out scheduled meetups. It's just not for me.