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I fought all my life to be a submissive, and then a turn in my health took away my ability to serve full-time. I'm looking for a very special, flexible relationship, one which would not be easy to label, and which would be of our own making. I am happiest being dominated sexually, but I require help with certain tasks that would best be handled by a personal service submissive, or someone who doesn't see personal service as a threat to their dominant side. Someone who enjoys manicures, pedicures, bathing and dressing would be ideal. A person who is observant enough to get to know my rhythms, analytical enough to be willing to experiment around my limitations, and imaginative enough to come up with interesting and fun ways to do so, would be my prime partner.
I do not work out of the house. I do not expect you to pay for me, give me money, or anything of that nature. However, if you wish me to live you with you at some point, you would have to realistically be aware that I could bring nothing financially to the situation. I do not drive often or far, so ideally you would be close enough to visit, and would not mind doing so.
I'm a very strong-willed person, and require a strong-willed person as my partner. I believe that a relationship is one of equals. Whether one person is submissive, and the other is Dominant, both bring equally-important traits to the relationship; without which, neither would be entirely happy. It's important to find a person who shares our strengths, but also one who shores up our weaknesses; someone who shares our interests, but who is different enough to enable us to grow.
I get bored very easily, and require a lot of variety. I like to converse, and I like to think. When I face a problem, I will talk about it a lot, searching for new parts I've missed previously. I will pick it apart, observe it from all angles, and try different things until I hit upon the right solution. I'm absolutely tenacious about figuring things out. If you find that sort of thing fun, or can at least tolerate it, then we have a good chance of matching. If that sort of thing drives you crazy, I am *not* the woman for you, lol.
I'm equally tenacious about working through problems. I hardly never yell, and I don't believe getting upset solves anything. I'm not passive-aggressive, and don't play games. I expect to have a relationship with someone who is stable, has no emotional or mental problems, and who has a healthy outlook about relationships. I don't like to be screamed at, or belittled; I will not stay long in a roller-coaster relationship, and if you raise a hand to me, outside of any negotiated parameters, you can expect I will take action.
I'm very compassionate, and I expect a partner who is equally compassionate. There are a lot of problems in the world today, and only by facing them, and doing something - even small things - can we hope to solve them. I believe in respect, raising kids to do the right thing, the sanctity of family, old-fashioned values, and morality. I do not believe that loving BDSM means that I have to give up those things.
You'll notice I haven't discussed fetishes. I have many, and many others I'd like to try. I do not consider them the most important part of my makeup, or *yours*. I'm looking for a life-partner. I believe it is possible to find such a person in the BDSM community, it's a matter of examining and discussing the most important traits, and letting the rest fall out in a fun learning process.
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