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I am definitely not looking for anyone who drops me one line saying 'wanna chat' or words to that effect. Anyone who reads this profile should be able to figure out that I ramble and have quirky opinions, they should also figure out that I'm unlikely to reply to  one line emails and please, leave the chatspeak at home. I never really actively look, people just happen into my life because they're likeable interesting people. I know, it sounds very dull, but I find friendship first to be essential. No one has ever made me wantto be with them long term just because I lusted for them right off.
I'm a switch- but I'm not 'generally' looking for a dominant, unless they particularly interest me.


Most of my experience has been as a Top or Domme if you prefer, not a fixed entity. Truth is - my attitude to BDSM roles is fluid and depends on the person or persons I am involved with. But top or bottom, I'm a bossy mare

My BDSM interests depend on the relationship.It's going to totally depend on whether I'm top or bottom (and what I like as either isnt a reflection of the other side) and the vibe. (wash your brain out - I don't mean vibrator tsk)

I love vacations - and find they are even better if I meet pervy natives in the cities I visit. 
I am seeking someone who can handle me. I'm very outspoken, usally deemed blunt. I want an honest, trustworthy, loyal, employed, and patient person who can communicate effectively with me.

 Yes, I can be submisive. I have no been in a long time as no one has yet to take my needs and wants into account the way they should. I do have issues trusting people due to a lot of hard lessons in my life. I am a horrid submissive. being very mouthy and bratty. I like to say what's on my mind and what  iwant or don't want. Hard to be a good subbie if you're trying to be in charge all the time. But I do think the right man could tame me. If he was willing to work at it.

The person who replies to me should be willing to take on a challenge. And also know I have baggage that will take time to work out. I do not enjoy pain, having had too much of it in my life. But There's so many facets to me waiting to be revealed for jus tthe right person. I've got a high sex drive, which has been deemed slutty at times, but I am monogamous and so should you be. I will not tolerate being cheated on.

If you think you can handle a brat who's got a stubborn streak wider than the atltantic ocean, reply to my ad and see what happens.