Hello, 

Please understand if I do not respond right away I am dealing with some real life issues.  On November 25th my house was destroyed by a fire.  Everything was loss except for what I had on at the time.

 I am in a motel for the next few days, but I will be moving into temp housing in the next week.   It is a little hard to get online much right now.

Thank you for understanding,

cindy

Recently i was asked to tell about this Owner i seek.   i had to stop and think for a moment, it was the first time someone had asked this question in this way to me.  After a moment i took a deep breath, closed my eyes and wrote this from my heart.   Maybe this will be read by Him and he will know this is the one He has been looking for. 

This Owner i seek.. is patient.. lord knows with me he would have to be since i have so much to learn.  He understands the need for rules, structure and protocol in a girl’s life. He knows the difference in correction, punishment and his right to use his property as he wants and does not confuse them.

Firm hand, controlling heart, follow through, no idle threats, does not allow one to control any situation but does allow her to think and use her mind.

He is experienced in mental and physical control. He knows that a girl is new to her submission and will need guidance but knows she is worth it. He allows her to serve and please him and can and will direct her with just his voice knowing that is all he needs to control her and to push her. But if more is needed he can and will do so.

This girl is waiting for you Master.

Quotes from a wonderful book i am reading.   Devil in the Details  I  

The art of Mastery Volume 1   By LT Morrison

This is the first of a Mentoring Trilogy  https://www.createspace.com/3632720

 

OR the author can be found at  https://.com/users/12215

"Mastery is responsible control of part, or all, of another's life.  Mastery is about power.  Power is about control.  Control is the ability to apply consequence."

          page 45.

"Simply put, for Mastery to work you must create, re-enforce, focus on and be guided in directing her mind to the simple belief that she thinks herself a slave.  If she only fleetingly feels her slavery, it will not endure.  She will process in vanilla terms and constantly, at some level fight this.  Without the core belief in herself as a slave, and your constant positive reenforcement of that core value, none of this works. 

The "slave mindset" produces the enduring love that binds the dedicated master.  She mus bring that need to the relationship, but as Master, it is critical those feeling be reinforced through your actions and style."

          page 46

"General terms, vague notions, and romatic cliches, while nice to read do not provide much specific informtion on how to develop a real life Master-slave dynamic.  You need an understanding of specific power.  The exercise is to think of what specific powers, real powers, detailed livable powers, a slave can offer, and for which a Master can accept respoinsiility and manage.  Be specific.  Do not get involved with generalities.  Come up with actual real specific powers."

          page 48