(last update 7/14)Seeking those who love weekend get aways, long drives and exploring the shores of the Great Lakes. Hikers and campers are especially encouraged to reply.I consider myself to be more of a Disciplinarian than a "Daddy", but the two are certainly similar. I dislike the term "Daddy" because of the connotations of incest. I feel a Disciplinarian seeks to accomplish goals. I seek someone to set goals with then "help" them see tme come to fruition despite the challenge they can be to accomplish. Most of these goals will be mutually negotiated, some may not. By "mutually negotiated" I mean when they are first established. From that point on there will likley little negotation. I want my sub to feel a sense of accomplishment and pride so that I may share these feelings with her. No pain - no gain in it's most literal sense. I'm not an arrogant overly self-centered type dominant. I expect to be repected but not worshipped. I am not a God or a religion. But when I ask for something to be done, the sub had better do their best to accomplish it or there will be stern consequences. I know and appreciate that subs have desires and goals outside of their D/s relationship and will give my full support to help them in any way I can or they wish for. I am self employed in a service industry and always aim to please my customers beyond their expectations. One of my goals is to instill this type of mindset in my subs, if it's not already present. Even then, it may likely need a bit of fine tuning and won't necessarily always be focused on me but life in general. I call this Disposition Training.I like writing new rules and thinking of smart and creative ways to enforce them. If you dislike conertime, you will be best to adhere to them. All my rules will be clearly written to avoid confusion and the sub slave will be required to carry a copy of them at all times they are in my presence along with a log book to track and monitor infractions. Harcore masochists and "painsluts" are likely best to contimue their search for their mate as I prefer to use forms of pain or miscomfort as tools to deter unwanted behavior, not reward. This doesn't mean that I don't love "playing" but rest assured discipline will be a stark contrast to it. I can be particular about how my sub dresses and presents herself. Those who serve me should expect their wardrobe to be controlled / chosen for them, at least in the beginning.Though I do love sexy and fetish styles, I feel they are primarily best for private times and play parties. For general public I much prefer "cute and casual" over "sexy and hot". In most scenarios, I'll take a girl in cute capris and flip-flops over one in a mini-skirt and heels almost anyday. It's just the way I've always been. I prefer ladies over hard-assed tuffies. There’s not much more of a turn-off to me than a woman who drops the F-bomb in public, much less private. Have they absolutely no class or dignity? I’m not fond of ink on women, but am OK with a few tastefull tats that are well placed. If you have a "sleeve", tats on the neck or skulls anywhere on your body, there's other guys out there that are a better match for you than I. I'm OK with facial piercings except in the lips (I like to kiss) or septum.I treat subs with the respect the way a gentleman should treat any lady. treated. Yes, this means I will open doors for you etc.. Chivalry is not dead in my world and I like to feel I have some dignity. I'm not into name-calling or any sort of humiliation. If I were to call you a slut, tramp, pig or whatever, that would just make me someone willing to be accompanied by a slut, tramp, pig etc..Those who know me well, will tell you that I can be fiercly protective of those who I become close to. I'm not here to find some "hot" little skinny model, so please don't feel you need to be one to gain my interest. This all does not mean I can be an easy push-ver and not be strict, demanding and challenging. Some of you may notice I have viewed your profile. If I have please do not feel I'm not interested in you simply because I didn't send a message. I'm just doing a lot of looking around right now. Please feel free to message me with any questions you may have.
Pics taken on south west shore of Lake Erie.
This profile is a work in progress while I find the best words to express myself, my desires and wishes. So who’s up for a fun life-changing summer? The shores of the lakes await us!
7/24/2013 6:48:15 PM
I'm finding it quite interesting that the vast majority of compliments I've been getting for my profile are from collared and married sub/slaves.... and a few Dom. Females.
6/18/2013 8:33:15 AM
I'm new here and have been looking at a lot of profiles since joining. If I have looked at yours, please don't assume I'm not interested in you because I may have not sent a message. I'm just looking around and getting familiar with the site.
