Looking mostly for friends and perhaps play partners. I have a wonderful and secure relationship with my mate, whom I play with at home and out with others. Sometimes we play separately but we often play together as a team.

I love role play & costumes; I have had limited experience with (but absolutely loved) being in drag and would love it if I could find a guy (or girl) who could ride my strap-on cowboy style;)

When I am Bottom:
Big thumping floggers are a favorite of mine. Please have rythem! I really get into my subspace when you can beat me like a drum to energetic throbbing music. I like being led around on a leash and being displayed, I don't like to talk while I sub so sometimes being gagged and blindfolded is nice. I like being partially covered but having my 'bits' exposed and vunerable. Hand spankings are exciting. I love biting and scratching, but I am not a pain slut by any stretch. I mark easily and wear them with a smile.

I am interested in trying out Impact play, pony play, (wine) enemas, caning, and rope suspension.

I would prefer a female top, but am open to men, but either must be friends with both myself and my husband before we will trust enough to continue to any kind of play.

When I am Top:
I enjoy weilding a pair of crops on my underlings. I enjoy having human furniture and 'directing' multiple subs to do naughty things to eachother. So sub couples are encouraged to make our aquaintance! I like my subs on their knees or all fours. I love reactions: light touch and tickling, vibrators, pinwheels, restraints, fur and texture play. Extar points if you like getting messy with food, massage oil and then a shower together. If you can beg to eat pussy, then I might make it worth you while.

I have a fantasy about dominating a couple, having them do various naughty things to eachother, using them as furniture while teasing them and then taking him from behind, with my strap-on, while he is going down on his girl. (**This is the extremely shortened version of this fantasy, its actually much more detailed than this and maybe you'll find out sometime;)

I'm open to lots of things though... I just wish I had more time to do them (and them to do me!) My guy likes to watch sometimes and participate other times, he loves the taste of an eager pussy. Lay down and enjoy ladies!