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If you're serious about finding a suitable Dom/Master, along with any associated degree of Vanilla, read the entirety of My profile. Understand what I wrote, and what it means to you before responding.
I am both Firm and Fair...
What exactly does that mean?
I draw on My 20 years' military experience (Ret) as a Leader who never had to raise His voice in addressing subordinates. My very presence, both in My physical stature, and My Firm authoritarian spirit were typically all that was needed to make My point. Whether giving a direct order (rarely had to exercise this), or My more subtle approach, I never had to wonder if what I asked anyone to do, was in fact going to happen. As to My being Fair, part of the the reason I found success was that I treated My subordinates as humans; albeit subordinate to Me. Respect was/is earned, and in exchange, they were willing to exchange what power they had for My ability to guide, nurture, and groom them to be more than they might otherwise be on their own.
If you're a submissive woman, I hope I don't have to point out the obvious correlations between My experience in the military, and My Dominance as it applies to this lifestyle (D/s, or M/s). your reading this, and/or responding indicates to Me a willingness to explore the possibilities. I would also venture to say that many of your experiences, if you've been around for some time, have been less than favorable.
In February of 2010 I took a long, hard look at what was important to me. Part of that introspective inventory was My realization that if I was to be Dom/Master to a sub/slave, I needed to exercise a modicum of discipline over My physical health, and well-being. I started this ongoing journey weighing in at 290 lbs - today, I am a very healthy 220 lbs. I eat very little red meat, miniscule quantities of processed foods, and the remainder of My diet (vegetables) is 100% Organic (Which I am able to grow year-round.) I do not smoke, drink, and definitely do not use any mood, or mind altering chemicals - My mind and body are toxin free.
This is My CODE:
- I am here for a Long Term D/s, M/s Relationship that has a solid foundation of a Vanilla life. The exact blend of all will be defined by U/us well before any level of commitment is established.
- I am not here to play games, mind fuck you, or lead you down any path that you are not fully prepared to venture down.
- you have a mind, and I fully expect you to use it. I am not looking for a dim-witted woman - I expect you to come to the table fully prepared to contribute to O/our relationship your intellect, experience, and knowledge.
- I expect that you have given considerable thought about your decision to submit to a Dom/Master. I have no desire to have you discover somewhere in the midst of a relationship with Me that this was a passing thing, or that you have simply lost interest.
- I expect that you've arrived at a point in your life that intimacy, sexual or otherwise, is as much a Daily need for you, as it is for Me. I also expect that your libido is very healthy - that your desire to please, and be pleased, is quite insatiable.
Make no mistake about it; should you decide to join Me on this journey, I will be your eternal Dominant Protective Soul. I will also say that the depth, and/or degree of O/our D/s, or M/s relationship, and the closely inter-weaved aspects of the Vanilla relationship is fully open for discussion - even if you have no idea at this point what you ultimately desire.
I am not looking for a Long Distance relationship; I am looking for Real Time only. Be prepared to meet sooner than later - W/we exchange a few compatibility emails, talk on the phone, and arrange a Vanilla meeting in person. I am open to explore the possibility of meeting someone outside of a roughly 40 mile radius of My zip code, but I am not willing to relocate; the onus is on you to do so.
Should you decide to email Me, whether Vanilla, D/s, or M/s, I would expect a modicum of appropriate respect. I'm less concerned about how you look (pictures optional, but would be appreciated - an accurate description in lieu of pictures.) I am not open to an obese woman (does not fall within my code of overall good health, and well-being.) I am more favorable to thin/HWP woman, but a few extra pounds/stocky, or BBW's who lead a healthy, active lifestyle are welcome to respond. No heavy/moderate smokers, but the occasional, social smoker is okay. I am not tolerant to heavy, or moderate drinkers, but I am amiable to social/infrequent drinkers. I have absolutely NO tolerance to illicit drug users (accepting of those taking medications for diagnosed physical, and/or psychological ailments/disorders.)
Using the Five Factor Model (FFM) of personality traits, commonly known as (OCEAN), the first four (OCEA), are accurate descriptors of Me (specific notes about Me in Italics; the latter (N), I am completely opposite (I am very Secure/Confident.) These traits are definitely applied to My Vanilla life, and to some degree, My D/s and M/s. An appraisal of these traits as they apply to you are not overly relevant, but should you wish to assess yourself, and respond in kind, that would be appreciated (not required.)
- Openness - (inventive/curious vs. consistent/cautious). Appreciation for art, emotion, adventure, unusual ideas, curiosity, and a variety of experiences. All apply to Me, but I would say I'm inventive/curious/consistent with some degree of caution.
- Conscientiousness - (efficient/organized vs. easy-going/careless). A tendency to show self discipline, act dutifully, and aim for achievement; planned rather than spontaneous behavior. I exhibit occasional spontaneous behaviors, although mostly confined to the Vanilla.
- Extroversion - (outgoing/energetic vs. solitary/reserved). Energy, positive emotions, surgency, and the tendency to seek stimulation in the company of others. I have an infectious positive attitude...I would add gratitude to that, that I express often.
- Agreeableness - (friendly/compassionate vs. cold/unkind). A tendency to be compassionate and cooperative rather than suspicious and antagonistic towards others. Right on the mark in Vanilla, some aspects of cooperative are best defined individually as it applies to D/s and M/s.
- Neurotic - (sensitive/nervous vs. secure/confident). A tendency to experience unpleasant emotions easily, such as anger, anxiety, depression, or vulnerability. I the antithesis of this trait - I am very secure/confident.
If you have ANY questions, now is the time to ask. Putting aside my D/s, M/s, and CODE, I am the guy you would meet in the Vanilla world who will provide whatever degree of Vanilla you desire. I'm an open book that I invite you to read, at your will.
I look forward to your interest, emails, and ultimately, the potential for an amazing life ahead of U/us...
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