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ElizaDoolittle
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jadedbyone
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Experienced Dom seeking the last relationship in my life.
If you're a reasonably issue-free submissive / slave looking for a structured life of service with a firm master, let's chat. I'm most interested in a relationship that can, over time, develop into a TPE relationship.
Given that I'm looking for a serious D/s relationship, be willing to devote the time so that we can get to know each other. Be willing to tell me why I should be interested in you, your vanilla interests as well as your lifestyle ones. Be willing to listen as I explain why I'm worth your time.
Understand that this is a LIFESTYLE, not a game. I truly believe that a D/s relationship can be much more intense, longer lasting and more fulfilling than a vanilla one. But it also takes more work on both the Dom and submissive's parts.
Being a good Dom requires that he so completely knows his sub that he understands what she wants and needs in life even better than she does herself.
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Here's a top 100 things that you should know about me:
1) My very favorite quote is by Thomas McCaulay, "The real measure of a man's character is what he would do if he knew that he would never be found out." I try to live by that every day of my life. Sometimes I fail, but I'm satisfied with my progress.
2) I was the Florida State Fencing Champion, and was Captain of my college fencing team as a freshman.
3) I've done business in 48 different countries in the world and am quick to adapt to a different culture.
4) I collect autographed first edition books.
5) Parties full of unknown people make me uncomfortable. And I have no problems reconciling that with my being a Dom.
6) I once canoed the Suwannee River from the Okefenokee Swamp to the Gulf of Mexico (260 miles).
7) I am, or was, a Scuba Instructor.
8) I'm fiercely loyal to my friends.
9) My friends call me a Renaissance Man, because of my many interests, and I love that.
10) Photography is a passion for me.
11) I believe that Robert E. Lee was the greatest American that ever lived. And that Stonewall Jackson was a very close second.
12) I completed a two year course on landscape design.
13) I'm a published author
14) I've walked barefoot on hot coals (and have the photo to prove it).
15) I love to cook, and prefer eating a nice dinner at home to going out.
16) Would rather have a few close, loyal friends than many "acquaintances"
17) It's better to live alone than in a flawed relationship
18) My spine tingles when they play the national anthem.
19) Tractors are a secret passion for me. Sorry, it is what it is.
20) I was NASCAR before NASCAR was cool.
21) I'd rather hear "Gee, I don't really know" than be lied to by some clueless clerk.
22) I believe that 'customer service' no longer exists in this country.
23) And no, I do NOT want to push 1 to hear English.
24) Waitresses who bring you iced tea refills without being asked, zoom into the 30%+ tip range.
25) I believe that people who don't like dogs have suspect personalities.
26) I voted for a Democrat once. I regret that very much. But Rosalynn is still a very classy lady.
27) I admire people who build things... carpenters, building site construction workers... I like the fact that they can take their sons past something and say, "I did that".
28) There is no college football outside of the South... and no, Notre Dame is NOT an exception to that rule.
29) An impartial press in this country died sometime before the Viet Nam war. When I read something with the headline from the NY Times, Time magazine or CNN, I always discount the story before I read it.
30) As James Mitchner once wrote, "Bora Bora is the most beautiful island on the face of the earth, and anyone who's ever been there wants to go back".
31) The best food in the world is country fried steak.
32) And fried okra is the best vegetable.
33) The number 333 has always been very lucky for me.
34) Crossing under the Berlin Wall at Checkpoint Charlie was a real thrill for me.
35) I miss those talks that we used to have in college, the ones that started at dinner, continued through the evening and ended, if at all, in the wee hours of the next morning. I'd love to continue those talks.
36) My father was my only hero in life.
37) I find that the best way to deal with negative people in your life is not to talk with them. Not even a 'hi'. Just shut them off.
38) And while I'm on the subject of negativity, I believe that we choose each day how our day will turn out, by our attitude.
39) The Eiffel Tower in Paris is one of the few tourist attractions in the world that won't disappoint.
40) People who correct your spelling or pronunciation when they know your meaning are empty people.
41) Walking on the Great Wall in China is harder than you think.
42) I believe that management is a lost art in this country. Far too often it is replaced by pompous asses with big egos. And yes, I've worked for them.
43) Zebras are cool animals
44) I'm very brand loyal...
45) Apollo 13 was one of the great movies of all time.
46) I'm religious, but I don't go to church. And I regret that.
47) Canoeing with the Cree was one of the best books ever.
48) Francis Marion was the greatest American hero that you've never heard anything about. In fact, without him, we'd still be a British colony.
49) I'm a terrible geek, and I love that.
50) Boiled Peanuts are the delicacy that God eats daily.
51) Fine fountain pens are more important to me than a fine watch
52) I love Photoshop and could play with it all day long
53) The worst mistake of my life was when I moved away from Florida
54) I believe that my greatest successes in life still await me.
55) I traded in the pits in Chicago for two years. It was fun, it was exhilarating, but two years was enough.
56) I have over 1,000 books on investing, and have read all of them.
57) Regarding those 1,000 books on investing? Only about 10 of them would be worth buying again.
58) I came within about 15 minutes of becoming a dot com millionaire.
59) I used to think that jet lag coming back from Europe was terrible, then I started doing business in Asia. Suddenly European jet lag didn't bother me ever again.
60) Cell phones are portable phones, not status items.
61) There is no better feeling in the business world than a really good day in the market.
62) Boxers, definitely.
63) I won't stand in line for breakfast, no matter how famous the pancake house.
64) I believe that we must have trials in our life, sometimes seemingly unbearable, to fully develop our character.
65) There is a moment in photography when you press the button, that you know that you have created something beautiful. It's akin to 'KNOWING' when you swing the bat and connect that you've hit a homerun.
66) If a Dom's word isn't kept on little things, how can he be trusted with the responsibility of a sub or slave?
67) Control, leadership or whatever you want to call it is strongest when delivered in a whisper.
68) I want to know everything about my sub or slave... I want to know them inside and out, their hopes, fears, I want to know them better than they know themselves.
69) I love museums
70) When I retire, I want to open a high end portrait studio. I'm training myself for that now.
80) The thing that I miss most about not being in a relationship is spooning on a cold Fall morning.
81) I love beautiful lingerie on women. The way that it hugs their body, the sensual feel against your skin.
82) I think that women are wonderful, complex beings. But spanking them now and then is still necessary to get them to stop worrying.
83) I collect old French postcards.
84) I know myself and I'm confident in my abilities. That confidence makes me eager to face the challenges that today will bring.
85) Ritz crackers and peanut butter are a complete meal.
86) I'm an INFP in the Meyers-Briggs profile.
87) When I was at the lowest point in my life, I attended a Landmark Forum. If your life isn't what you want it to be, you should too.
88) Leaders should lead by example.
89) I hate people who can't say 'thank you'.
90) I want to skydive sometime. It's the only real fear that I have, falling into a void, so I want to face that fear, tackle it head on, and live a fear-free life from now on.
91) I believe that people with wheeled luggage in rush hour should be publicly beaten with sticks.
92) I always donate when the Boy Scouts come to the door. Been there, done that myself and still remember how rude people can be.
93) I was a fryman at McDonalds when they still had real (not frozen) french frys.
94) I was arrested once in the People's Republic of China.
95) Hong Kong is my favorite city.
96) I was the victim of a horrible phonetics experiment that went wrong in the 1950s. Do not assume that my inability to spell is an indication of my intelligence.
97) I love foreign films with sub-titles.
98) I have way too many books. Books on the shelves, books in my home office, books in storage in the garage. And yet I still buy more. The same with DVDs.
99) I believe that you're born Dom or sub, you don't 'discover' it.
100) I think that you should share you '100 Things' list with me, so that we can get to know each other.
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| Age: 34 |
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