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I'm a Dominant man living in Manhattan and searching for the right submissive woman for a serious, lasting connection. As is the case for so many people here, I do enjoy being in control in bed. That said, if you're just looking for someone to slap your ass and pull your hair then I'm not for you. As I see it sex is only a small portion of the D/s dynamic; true dominance and submission permeate all aspects of life. There are plenty of men who are angry at the world and looking to take their aggression on some poor sub and call it D/s. If you want a man who is naturally dominant, who has attained control of his own life and who is truly ready to control you, use you and train you, please read on.
I will list a few general things I would expect of you:
-Absolute obedience when we are alone. Depending on your experience I understand that this can take time. I will be patient with you. My expectations will be clear and punishments won't be handed out capriciously. In return I expect you to follow your orders to the best of your ability and to be held accountable when you fail to do so.
-The desire to truly submit and not to "top from the bottom"
-The enthusiasm to go beyond just following orders and to take the initiative to find ways on your own to increase in your submission, please me, and grow individually and with me. This should be something you crave and something that is a core part of who you are, not just something you do.
Things I will not do and would consider unhealthy:
-Separate you from your family
-Separate you from your friends
-Force you to submit in public in a way that would be detrimental to our reputations, relationships with friends, etc.
-Push your limits beyond what you can handle. I will certainly push them, but only at a rate we can both enjoy.
-Walk around with a macho chip on my shoulder. There is a time and a place for discipline, training and punishment. I will not shy away from doing what is necessary to keep you in line. That said, a mutual desire for power exchange cannot be the beginning and end of our compatibility. Trust, chemistry, a substantive connection - all those pillars of a vanilla relationship are just as necessary for anything of substance with D/s, too.
Does this resonate with you? Is this what you've been searching for? Let's talk more.
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