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This is what I am not here for:
NO MALES! NO TRANNYS NO ONLINE/CYBER!
“In my dreams I kiss your cunt, your sweet wet cunt. In my thoughts I make love to you all day long.” by: Ian McEwan "Acceptance, understanding, patience, power exchange, discipline, training, teaching, time, respect, growth of trust, care, and connection." "A man has to learn that he cannot command things, but that he can command himself; that he cannot coerce the wills of others, but that he can mold and master his own will: and things serve him who serves Truth; people seek guidance of him who is master of himself." - James Allen If you are not in the local Hampton Roads area, please don't approach me for long distance. DC/MD area would be the furthest I'd consider meeting someone.
What I seek Female submissive, who is FIT (being fit has nothing to do with your size. fit as in healthy mentally and physically).
I adore a feminine girl who loves being a woman. I do value Intelligence. I'm looking for a woman who is open-minded, kind-hearted, attractive, and willing to take the time to build the trust that is needed for this type of relationship. I want to be part of your growth and grow with you. Robots need not apply. You should be willing to speak your mind, yet always be respectful where respect is deemed.
You must be eager to please as well as eager to learn.
I seek my best friend, someone to grow with as a life-partner.
What I'm interested in is you... who you are, what you want, what you need, your views on actual life outside of kink/sex and D/s.
I believe that before two people can move into the actual dynamics of Dominance and submission, they have to be compatable as people first, because first and foremost, we are men and women before we are Doms and subs. If you dont believe in total honesty, I am not the Daddy for you...
I am Not looking for a cyber or online relationship!
Of course, I do not wish to rush into anything with anyone but PLEASE understand, I am looking for REALTIME. Again, I am willing to take the time it takes to establish trust, but if there is a mutual interest, we need to both be honest and decide to move forward with speaking on the phone and planning our first public meeting within a reasonable time frame. There is either a mutual sincere connection or there isn't. Connect with me if you feel you may be the little girl I desire and you are looking for a fun, sincere, vibrant daddy with a quick laugh and a firm hand when necessary. I'm very approachable. And yes in fact I do have recent photos of myself I will be glad to send if you ask.
9/2/2013 11:05:43 AM

LOL Damn since I've begun posting my real photos vs net photos the interest in my profile has went waaaaaaaaay down!

But you know what?  This is the Internet and if my self-esteem was not already in tact with the knowledge that I can usually engage women I'm interested in face to face and in real life; I'd take it personal but I don't. 

Post a fake pic they come in droves. Show em who you really are and crickets. Hmmmm

The urge to finally delete this profile after...(this profile had been here for at least 5 yrs or more) is stronger than ever since it's doing nothing more than taking up bandwidth and seems to be a waste of my time. 

1/26/2013 3:45:42 PM

It looks like I've not lost my touch with attracting gay men and trannies.

The exact opposite of what I seek! LOL

10/6/2011 5:00:44 PM

"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's
life. Don't be trapped by dogma -- which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.
They somehow already know what you truly want to become.
Everything else is secondary."
- Steve Jobs

10/6/2011 4:20:50 PM

Logging in this thing after almost 6 months.

It makes me chuckle when I think about how, maybe about 10-12 years ago I bought into the whole "Internet is a great place to find what you're looking for" thing.

The net is great for buying shit and spending your money.

The net is great for porn.

But as far as finding a real and sincere submissive woman who's looking for realtime?....well, I've had better luck with supermarkets and laundrymats...LOL

1/22/2011 10:55:38 AM

Do you have a Paypal account?

Tell me how I can go about sending you cash via western union.

Because I'm so damn dumb and so damn hardup to get laid I'll send you all my cash baby......NOT!

1/22/2011 10:49:30 AM

 

One thing I've learned about being on this site is that as a male approaching a female, be it slave or submissive, you've usually got one shot to "impress" or get someone to read your email let alone respond.

While I understand putting your best foot forward and agree to an extent that ones initial impression is sometimes the right one; I think it forces many men to make up shit just to get noticed. Considering the average female on here; if she's got pics and looks good, has anywhere from 100 to 1000 messages from other guys on here and IF she even gets too your email it better be something that makes you stand out from the horny crowd of hard cocks.

When I seem to approach a woman politely, often times they seem to be looking for the cyber dom and expect the..."Hey cunt..." type of thing. You can't be a real dom if you are polite right?  lol

1/5/2011 3:26:01 PM

It's been quite a while since I've been on this site. No, I'm not going to bitch about having been on this site for years and complain about the fakes. 

This site is free which means AnyFuck can join regardless if their intentions are sincere or not.  Most times, you get what you pay for.  With life, we have choices and I made the choice not to frequent this place and spend my time more wisely.

Years ago, I thought the advent of sites like this would be an excellent chance to find what I was looking for but life has taught me that "real life" and living it gives me a much better chance at putting myself in the position of meeting the sincere, compatible submissive babygirl.

Wishing you all the best in the new year, in life and beyond.

 

Firm

 

3/14/2010 9:04:24 AM
This website is definately entertaining. Recently I came across a post on another lifestyle website talking about collarme. This posts nails it and pretty much describes my experiences here.
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How to determine who is fake on collarme. They say:

  1. I want you to describe in detail how my life will be.

  2. I want to talk online for 2 weeks to know you are real before we speak on the phone

  3. I can talk to you this weekend because my mom listens in on all my kinky calls (how does mom know which calls are kinky?)

  4. Tell me what will happen when I arrive...?

  5. We can talk on the phone this weekend (and then puts you on hold because a friend called they have to speak with)

  6. When you send me an email make sure to include a picture in every email so I know what you are into.

  7. I wont post any pictures of myself online because of all the scammers but if you dont send me pictures I wont respond.

  8. Blank Profile but looking for everything collarme offers from Dom Men to roommates to just friends to sub women.

  9. Listed as straight but only looking for Dominant women because they have had enough of men and need to be "converted".

  10. (and My fave) I once was a dominant but looking for a Mistress because I have "changed my mind"

if any of those have applied to you...you are not alone. I'm sure there are a ton more.

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dommiss4slave
 
 Age: 40
 Newyork, New York