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Update, I have found my dominant man HermanTheGerman.. and I still remain the same but we are on the search for a NZ male or caucasian submissive/slave.. one who will please and commit. Must be prepared to talk and meet after some chat time. I don't go into the cold and accept chat requests off the bat. Emails are introductions. We are here in the far north.


4/12/2015 1:31:23 AM
I am not interested in Sissy boys.. sub man is what I require.
3/28/2015 8:40:16 PM
Lets see if that's about to change.. the net has drawn in a lil cuckold.
3/8/2015 10:30:25 AM
Seems that I attract subs who promise the world but can't give nothing in reality
3/2/2015 7:48:11 AM
I am here to stay. Lifestyle is hard but appreciated to the point that I cant see myself anywhere else. Well worth the risk, now just to find that ever elusive sub slave who does what he says.
1/17/2015 7:23:19 PM
I am looking forward to a new adventure into isolation and wilderness in the far north. It will be a challenge but not so much as finding a sub/slave who knows what he wants and doesn't procrastinate but does what he says he will do.
11/6/2014 10:01:16 AM
I tolerate innovation and creativity but I do not condone philosophies that are self promoting to the point of greed and enterprises that go without compassion for those who suffer poverty or those that are less better off than ourselves. Have your riches but know that it is humility towards your fellow beings and nature that will cleanse your soul.
Does this mean that I won't discipline when there is a need to? Try to find out..
11/4/2014 5:39:31 AM
The last sub I had rode with me and was happy to do so.. probably my best pillion ever. Trust in putting your life in another's hands is the ultimate sign of commitment but requires continuity when off the seat.
11/4/2014 5:28:33 AM
How I see a submissive.. on rare occasion outspoken and needs reminders that there are decisions being made to benefit him more than Dominant. He understands that, his purpose is to please but does so with willingness to give naturally and without being reminded to. His passion in life is shared with his Dominant and he knows that either of them will be on a level that both are committed to ensuring that each other are satisfied taking advantage of trust and good communication. Sub is in the habit of asking and open to change, giving his dedication and showing it but knowingly commits to tasks for the advantage of both. He is sometimes playful and also intelligent, strategic and goes about his vanilla duties with just as much vigorous efforts as he does for his Dominant. He will always be mindful for ensuring he has the interests of his Dominant and expresses his dedication through actions and achievement. In return he is taken care of through attentiveness and trusting, strong bond and relationship between he and Mistress.
11/4/2014 5:09:06 AM
My definition of a slave.. subservient who is very docile in nature, humble and quiet, showing dedication and compassion for everyone or in general humility towards others, knowing his place as important as Master/mistress. There is a deep understanding of a purpose in life and sincerity which defies any vanilla relationship because the relationship between both slave and dominant is unbreakable, once that ground has been reached. Each knows the other so well that words are unspoken and communication is one of proudness and honour in attachment as slave. In return the protector and caretaker will lavish slave with rewarding and overwhelming love that is irreplaceable. The slave can speak his heart by actions and submit through deep trust and knowledge that he will be taken care of and in return, will know that he is totally in tune with desire and compassion for his commitment to serving Mistress. That relationship is unique and so very hard to find in any other, let alone slave one.
Personally speaking, I have come close to this and although it has been unachieved so far, I have no doubt patience will prevail and slave will become a reality..  
11/4/2014 4:38:20 AM
Hailstones on the roof is quite deafening but its telling me I'm alive. I want to be somewhere soon, just which part of the journey will it be. Where is the sub that is supposed to be
11/4/2014 4:21:54 AM
How can you think to serve someone on your first messages and promise the world when you have no idea who I am. Why would you even offer that to a complete stranger in the first place. Fantasy versus reality, would be like saying I don't know you but I will do it anyway. Common sense people is first thing I search for..
11/1/2014 2:37:42 AM
Not here to cam with men stripping their clothes or people who want to serve you..

I have been on here for a long time, and have yet to come across someone who can serve you a glass of wine let alone do real time on their hands and knees
10/21/2014 1:15:38 AM
Several burning the candle nights.. meeting deadlines is like killing yourself at finish line
10/18/2014 9:51:10 PM
hailstones.. very refreshing and ouch in the wind! So kept ma eyes on the road and my hands upon the wheel
10/11/2014 12:51:40 PM
Contact me when you land in NZ.. then we have something in common,  both feet on the same dirt
10/10/2014 2:36:31 PM
When  I say re locate.. meaning NZ
10/6/2014 8:15:45 PM
I will try a good chardonnay or the other.. comes in hand when in mid holiday
7/2/2014 3:51:56 AM
I suppose the statement.. "tell me about yourself" is a bit much for some subs to answer
1/16/2014 10:01:12 PM

I do not want a toy that is used by another... single is the operative word here

12/28/2013 12:16:33 AM

My list of activities here does not mean that it is necessarily what I expect others to be interested in. It depends on boundaries and dynamics

12/27/2013 12:23:53 PM

Do people not live in their own countries anymore? Seems to be large numbers living in countries that are not their own.

12/10/2013 12:56:28 AM

People trying to get a visa or into the country via my profile.. will not happen. Have a happy day!

12/8/2013 10:33:34 AM

I thought that I would've heard it all by now, the number of stories people try to tell you. Amazing and next minute, they will have owned a goldmine soon. Please people credit me with some intelligence. Funny really.

12/8/2013 1:52:27 AM

You have to have a really good memory when you tell lies but if you write them, you can't hide by your own hand.

12/7/2013 10:07:34 PM

Please if you are going to put a false profile up, make sure your picture matches your age, 55yo to 37yo photo lol.   

12/7/2013 9:47:55 PM

If you request chat, then be prepared to turn that cam on here. Just to make sure I know what you look like and to confirm who you say you are.

12/6/2013 9:16:55 PM

I am no longer willing to play along emailing and texting messages. That is alright if I know it will lead to meeting real time but I am 50yo and expect that to happen in this century please..

6/29/2013 1:53:42 AM

Great conversation would be welcomed and that comes about when you get to the point..Laughing

6/28/2013 7:13:16 PM

ITS a BDSM site and my Profile clearly says I am after a D/s with a genuine male sub, Meaning unattached, unmarried, uncomplicated situation.. feel another Tui Ad coming on

6/28/2013 12:22:21 AM

Positive search for a NZ genuine male sub.. tui ad, yeah right! Maybe barking up the wrong tree, lets see what falls out, if I shake another country 

3/27/2013 3:52:52 AM

Dont bother me if you are after online cam and sex games.. go and hire a pay by night

2/11/2013 1:10:13 AM

The block button is looking rather enticing round about now, if you have been emailing and wasting my time

2/9/2013 7:03:04 PM

Never Make Someone A Priority When They Only Make You An Option

10/17/2012 7:19:54 PM

Another who tells me to be this way or that... wtf

10/14/2012 11:47:51 PM

Well that didnt last long.. another sub wanting this way or that way. Must be a candy shop for buying the right shaped lollies.

9/27/2012 3:37:09 AM

DONT CONTACT me unless you are genuinely interested..

5/29/2012 5:30:34 AM

I prefer intelligent conversation.. with responses that keep both parties interested. Now how hard can that be hmm

4/11/2012 3:04:08 PM

Weeding of the garden is due, pruning about to clear out the old.. ahh but where is the new growth about to sprout from?

5/20/2011 4:17:19 AM

Question might be, what am I here for.. 

To converse and make links with those who are interested in dynamic talk.. 

12/3/2010 10:11:19 AM
Corporative world.. competitiveness in, hard work out and how you wear your lipstick
11/4/2010 2:17:11 AM

Drawn out emails... not wanted. Here to meet and make inroads or move on 

10/30/2010 10:55:16 PM

Tired of stupid decisions made by others so from now on I take control of everything.

10/27/2010 2:03:43 AM

Location is everything.. when you know where you're going 

kaerfegadonb
 
 Age: 26
 Miami, Florida