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hey,
Once again time for some modification of the profile. (5.10.2012)
Seems like time to redo my profile at least partially to better express my search (yes, I'm searching and I admit it) (25.12.2011)
My profile have so far all these years been purely concentrating on kinky me and my kinky search. yes, that's still there, why else would I be here. But it's still just a part of me. So I have been thinking lately little different approach. Not so much and entirely about kinky but also more about me.
The real me what people who knows me, meet me or just see me in the streets is far from stereotype Dom. I fit in to "normal" society. I wear business clothing for work, typical casual for free time. I like good food, good drink, pint in a pub, going to movies, reading a book, traveling. People would probably describe me positive, outspoken person. Definitely not shy. I like company, even being ventre of attention. Of course someone could say my personality and behavior can be seen as dominant type. But I would argue that not many people would judge me like that. I think I would seen as positive , fun loving personality. I DO like fun in many forms. I have done sin and enjoyed it ;)
So I would say not many peole think that I'm dominant. I don't bring it out in every possible time and place. It's not a thing I need to pronounce to the whole wide world. It's important part of me and my sexuality but still, just a part. I'm fine with that and plan to keep it that way.
But let me assure you, there is a very nasty, kinky, pervert dominant inside me and I just love it. I throughly love to dominate my woman. I have given kinky god an inch and he has definitely taken a yard and loved every minute of it.
What it has included, it has changed. My tastes has changed, I have met women with different tastes. But certainly I'm 100% dominant, no switching. Open to discuss what it can involve. Definantly some very kinky fun but open to many different situations and ideas.
Let's talk and get to know each others
ps. Not for too serious people. I have noticed I don't get well with very serious people.
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Negativity:
Seems like people are getting here more and more negative. Complaining about others. Using profiles for blaiming and barking at others. Giving rules who can contact. Not telling about themselves but complaining or making fun of others. I don't like everybody here but I can skip those people. I think this should be a place for building, not for destroying. |
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Pics:
I know our age is full of sex. But hey girls and women, most men still like to see face. It matters a lot. Plus it's stupid to put sexy undie pics here without any true pics. I won't come here to see pics. I can find lingerie sites if needed and at least where I live, even news paper show lingerie pics. So I would prefer real pics, face shown. Ok, sexy pic is nice but showing ass with black things, not sexy. Plain stupid. Something real, something interesting! |
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The future of collarme.com
It seems more and more people are getting frustrated here. As I have been here past 6 months quite an often I have seen same people here quite an often also. Now it seems certain amount of those serious people are getting frustrtaed or even angry to this site. The reason? The obvious: the amount of fake compared to the real people. You just can't trust people here.
Maybe the reason is that anyone can join here and have all the options in free use. Maybe the free site is not just working. The idea is great but maybe some payment is the only way to reduce of fakes and not serious people. Cause I think the serious people are already moving to other sites as this is not working. I hope collarme.com realises that before it's too late and make some modifications. |
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Number 4.
The collectors.
It seems here is bunch of people who can't find themselve pics/stories from vast supply of Internet and ask people to send them. They feign to be asking "real pics" but hey, who will send a real pic of some previous partner to totally unknown people. Especially when the person is saying he/she is not interested in you but only the "session" pics. Not me at least. The same goes with stories what will you do to me and you get a prize if you tell good stoty to me. To me it seems the person just collects pictures/stories. Of course there are other methods here for the same thing but these are the most stupid and rude. I hope people wouldn't send any pics/stories to them. |
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Third addition about profiles:
This all about fake profiles/people and people who fall into the victims of them.
I have seen here increasing amount of fake profiles as have seen other people also. Some I have even contacted/chatted etc, some by accident, some by sole purpose of seeing how they act.
I have always thought the people who fall into victims are somehow naive and can't blame anything else than themselves as the methods those people are using are very stereotyped, rude and basically easy to spot. They have to ask the money in some point before meeting. And they are so lazy and/or making good enough money not to come up with new reasons for sending money (using the usual travelling tickets, food..) You know the reasons ;) It's not very difficult to spot them if you have brains at all. So the victims can just blaim themselves. Sometimes it seems the victims really don't have brains as I have seen people making warning profiles reporting people answering to the warning profiles as normal profiles. Maybe they just don't read the profile before making the copy-paste email.
But I don't know about making new profiles with slightly changed names from fake profile names informing one individual profile as fake very effective. It's not like individual fakers making those profiles, it's business and they have certainly enough manpower to make new profiles when they see one profile is spotted as fake. For the same reasons the profiles containing the fale profile lists are pretty useless as they go old in few days.
In the past I was thinking it's everybody's own task to spot the fakers and ignore them as they want. But I have started to think lately that something have to be done. Not for the sake of the victims or fakers, but for the sake of the real people here. If too big portion of the people active here is just a faker this whole site looses its interestingness and all the real people here. Who wants to be come here and look for the company, friends, discussion if too many people is fake and one must use too much energy to spot even one real interesting human people? Not too many I guess. I'm no expert about Internet techniques but I could see some point of using better verification method to even get accepted here. Of course it's good to have the open system but still if the openness is used for the wrong reasons I think there should be some changes then.
But of course we users can also make something. I hardly never reported anyone for the any reasons before. The suffestions one other user said has made me think my policy again and I see the point of making reports. Maybe if enough of us "real" people stop just ignoring the fakes with silnece and putting the little active effort of at least reporting about the fakers we can change the situation. Not immidiately but just maybe if enough people with enough activity to report scams etc we can overwhelm them, not vice versa.
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I have seen and done the same shit but I'm not bad. I'm not 100% perfect but I'm not fake either. Dance the dance!! |
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Next note of some profiles here and people behind the profiles:
2. There seems to be a bunch of people here, who seem to have God complex. I find it very strange someones are thinking their views of domination, slavery, submission, Masterhood etc is the absolute thruth about those issues. I wouldn't preach to other that their views are wrong and they are stupid, idiots, wrong if they think own way and/or differently. I think it's quite a clear different people have different views and needs. It's of course ok to say what someone personally thinks and wants and looks for some other. But that's just personal taste, not the thruth. I wouldn't judge them, I would just say that my taste is different, looking for something else, thanks and good luck finding ur match. I think we should tolerate different tastes and views within this lifestyle, not judge them. Because personally I don't think anyone's view is better or more correct. |
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I have been some while here now actively and some things make you wanna cry or laugh when you read these profiles. My profile is not perfect either and open to criticism but still I want to make some remarks here:
1. People are complaining in their profiles and especially in journals a lot about wrong types of people contacing them (couple lookers getting answers from singles, gay/lesbian getting answers from straight and so on). But the very same persons don't fill their own profiles properly. For example when creating a profile there is a option: You are ACTIVELY seeking. I have used it at least. I have quite a clearly stated there I only look for submissive women. I encourage those complaining people to use it as well. I think people shouldn't be complain if they get messages for instance for dominant men if they have chosen to tab that in their profile. If you are not looking for them, you can edit your profile and take that tab away. I truly believe people who are looking for couples wouldn't get so many emails from singles if they just would only put themselves interested in couples, not singles. Or lesbian getting messages from men if they would choose to look only women. If they tab other than they are looking for they should first change their own profile and then start to complain. I'm sure there are people here who ignore those tabs as well but I'm sure there are also people like me who use the search honestly, putting own gender, orientation and interest right. For instance I don't look lesbian dominants there and I don't answer to them. I think everybody should first edit their own profile to match theirown needs and not complain other actions. That would already reduce undesired emails. |
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