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Hello and Welcome to my little corner of the world.
Please allow me to introduce myself. My name is Kitten, I have been involved in BDSM scene for over 17 years now. I started out my wonderful journey into a world of BDSM when I was 16. Things have progressed from there. I went into my first M/s relationship when I was 21. It lasted a couple of years and it was 24/7 TPE. I learned so much about myself and what I needed during that time. I also learned that I could connect with another human being on such deep level it just hurt not be near them. That passion and depth of companionship I felt with being with them, brought me such joy. When we split up it was soul crushing and honestly, it took me a few years to be able to let someone else in like that. I continued my journey and met a few amazing people traveling down a submissive path.
I feel that though of those experiences of being 24/7 slave allowed to learn a lot about what it takes to be a good Domme. I have spent the time and effort developing what I consider to be a very deep understanding of the foundation of a deep and meaningful relationship with the hope that develops into Mistress/slave relationship at its core.
I honestly feel that if I can find the right person who angels and demons play well with mine that I can use all my knowledge and understanding of BDSM to develop something uniquely special. All my life I have a passion for BDSM and love of tying up. It has taken me on some interesting paths but all of them have taught me some much about myself and also learning the skills I need to be the best Mistress I can be for that right little girl.
One thing I have come across many times is that many who are Dom/Domme in this little corner of the world seem to be lacking the imagination to understand their slaves desires, needs and wants. Time and time again, I come across that many around here would rather tell others something is impossible or "Not practical" that put the effort and time into coming up with unique and interesting to achieve something magical to take that special little girl to places that she wants and needs.
I think like anything worthwhile doing its worth while doing well. When I come across some of the stories and attitudes of some on this place it strikes me that don't fully understand their submissives needs, and even sadder I think it's that they are either not willing or not able to put the effort and time to understand and develop a deep connection with their submissive. Time and time again I see that Dom/Domme makes it all about them, It surprises me how many times in conversations that many just see this as a sex thing. Funny how many just want to get there end off and move on once things start to have anything that even closely resembles a relationship. I am not saying I don't love sex, God I do and will enjoy that part a relationship just as much. But I also know that just having a sexual connection does not mean all the jigsaw puzzle pieces match, it's one little corner of the complexity of a meaningful M/s relationship.
So what am I looking for? well firstly intelligence, I am attracted to those who think for themselves, I love girls who can be super strong people but at the same time can be utterly submissive to their Owner. I am looking for a little girl, age is not that important to me, but I do have my own preferences and I am happy to share them in conversation. Some of my big loves in BDSM are Pet play/Training, Little and Middle space, and Mistress/Slave 24/7 TPE.
I am looking for that little girl who likes to pretend to be an adult, but really they are just a little girl pretending to be an adult and deep down inside they know they want a Mummy/Owner who will take care of them. Provide a safe place emotionally and eventually that allows them to exist in either there little or pet headspace and know that nothing will harm them when they are in that wonderful place. I find myself attracted to those can be strong on the outside, but very much a vulnerable little girl on the inside. I want a little that I can protect, love, cherish and allow to flourish under my guidance and support.
I can be extremely harsh when I need to be, and I love Bondage and restriction and at level that some might find difficult to cope with if they do not have experience, but I am also very aware of this and when I find my little girl, no matter how experienced she is that I will be there to guide her and give her the support she needs to allow herself to let go and just exist at the level she has dreamed about for so long.
I am looking for someone who finds themselves with deep desire to feel submissive, wants to be tied up, used and abused at times, in a safe environment and know that when its all over and done they will be cared for and looked after. The keystone to all of this is trust, without trust, there is no foundation to build upon allow that special person to feel comfortable enough to go to the places that she and I have dreamed about since we were able to comprehend what we wanted in regard to BDSM.
So what next? well If you have liked what I have written and would like to know more about me, I am very interested in getting to know you also, I am looking for a girl who understands to be a good Mistress to them, I must take the time and effort in learning all about them. It will take time, but does not mean the journey there will not be an amazing a lot of fun and adventure. So if you want to go on an Adventure and find a place where you can belong and be your own little self, then look no further and please feel free to message me and we can see where the rabbit hole goes together.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Kitten
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