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I am a little old fashioned, I think a Dom needs to earn the submission of someone, not demand it. To me D/s is not a game but a relationship, where each takes from the other what they need, while giving to the other person. The fact that you are a submissive does not mean you are a pushover in real life, nor does your being a Dominant mean that you need to be an overbearing bully. I derive no pleasure from punishment. The need to punish means a breakdown of my control and domination. I believe that submissiveness in a woman is simply a personality trait, not a weakness, and certainly not a disability.
KittyPayne
 
 Age: 42
  Ohio