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Hetero Male Master, 45,  San Dimas, California
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Do you ever feel like you are missing something? Do you serach for something more? Do you want satisfaction in your life? Do you want meaning and completion? Me too. Do you want to have your desires met? Do you want something as simple as someone you can talk with? Do you want physical satisfaction? Me too. Is BDSM more than just physicality for you? Does BDSM represent a search for something deeper? Does a BDSM relationship bring balance to you? Me too. Write me. Let's talk. Let's experience. Let's explore. Let's laugh. Let's fuck. Let's run. Let's satisfy. Let's revel. Let's find. -Put this in your profile if you know someone who has survived, struggles with or died of cancer...











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 Dominant Male

 San Dimas 


 6' 3"

 240 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

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Journal Entries:
3/24/2018 10:07:04 AM
Lonely is not good.

2/18/2018 3:54:28 PM

I've been reading some responses to a woman that I know here - 

Good lord, some of the "dominants" here are thick headed.

Is that the experience of most submissives here?  Thick headed dominants who don't read profiles or give submissives the respect of their profile?

<shakes head>

2/10/2018 10:58:59 AM

Often times, we mistake what we do for physical satisfaction.

Yes – that comes with the beast. So much so that I realize that at age almost 50, I need to be in better shape than at 25 – so that I can keep the schedule up that I keep. So much so, that when I get back from a night of play, I wake up early and get myself on the exercise mat. So much so that I discipline how I eat and what I eat

However, this life is so much more than physical
It brings wholeness and completeness in a way nothing else does. It brings calm and centeredness in a way nothing else does. It brings peace in a way nothing else does.

Isn’t that what we strive for?

A survey of players showed that 92% are looking for that.

Of course, 27.8% of all statistics are made up on the spot

1/25/2018 7:57:00 PM
I will be at a karaoke play party tomorrow night.

Come meet there!  Send me an IM to find out about it!

9/13/2016 10:37:41 AM


Like a car trying

To pass a tractor trailer

On a freeway

They pass on

To the left of us

To the right of us

Leaving us behind

In a frenzied speed

Only seen on a Texas freeway

Or a city in England

Friends and family

Loved ones

It is a part of life

The end of the freeway

Tears flow

Like the water, dripping from a crushed car

How fragile life is

How treasured the

Loved ones


At the End of the freeway


9/6/2016 2:19:35 PM
My friend is dying.

I'm sad

5/29/2016 4:08:53 PM
It's time for warrior three, standing splits, half moon, and twisting half moon - who's with me?

11/6/2014 5:58:13 PM
There is so much more to this life than the pursuit of the simply physical.

There is so much more to consider than the pursuit of that which immediately gratifies.

There is so much more than the physical stuff we are made up of.

10/29/2014 6:12:41 AM

8/29/2014 10:57:53 AM

This moves me

7/14/2014 7:26:52 AM
Magic Castle?  Anyone?  This Sunday evening?

7/13/2014 10:44:38 PM
Anyone want to go to the Magic Castle on Sunday Night?

7/7/2014 2:39:31 PM
I am such an idiot - just lost a very good chance

7/2/2014 6:33:25 PM
Loneliness sucks

10/30/2012 2:24:34 PM

So - how many of you saw that George Lucas sold Lucasfilm for 4 BILLION DOLLARS to Disney?  


How many of you remember when George Lucas made films without use of the establishment in Hollywood because he didn't believe in it?


How many of you find it ironic that he sold Lucasfilm to the establishment?


This is a story of American success through commercialization.


The question is: Did George Sell Out?


7/16/2011 12:58:13 AM

Well - let me define geek for you.


I went to see Harry Potter 7 at 12:30 on the opening day.  I wore a Season 18 Dr. Who scarf that I knit (I'm geek #1) because I wanted to wear something semi-british.  There were some girls there, one of them wrapped in a Sponge Bob Square Pants blanket (geek #2).  The girls saw my scarf, and one said, "Look at that long Harry Potter scarf!  That's cool!"  The girl holding SBSP immediately said, "That's not a Harry Potter scarf, that's a Doctor Who scarf!" 


  Geeks exist!  Nerds rule!



6/6/2010 3:37:26 PM

Here's a question that needs no real answer -

Is anyone else sick and tired of the fakes on this site?  Whether they be dom or sub, male or female?

I am looking for something real, and it's disgusting to see others trying to take advantage of genuine people.

It is a case of buyer beware.

4/26/2010 6:13:52 AM

2/16/2010 8:13:46 AM
Good morning again - my name is Stephen - and I am the 41 year old writer of this blog.  I am a musician and performer, and I am an experienced dominant/top/master. 
  Today was Plyometrics X, or Plyo X as it is lovingly referred to in the p90x crowd - a tough, movin and groovin workout, and part of getting me in the best shape of my life.
  Y'see, part of working out daily, eating right, and being and staying in the best shape of your life is self-discipline.  I have that - and I can pass it along to you - not just in the bedroom, but in every aspect of your life.  Are you interested in getting in better shape?  Write me.  Are you interested in being controlled by a knowledgable, strict dominant?  Write me.  Are you interested in someone who knows how to manipulate your body to give you the sensation-play that you like?  Write me.

  In essence, write me.  :)

2/15/2010 8:03:23 AM
Good Morning all!  Week 6 of P90X has been started - and it was with Chest, shoulders, Triceps and Ab Ripper X.  I feel wasted, but good. 

  Imagine what kind of Master I'd be, if I am this commited to something like p90x - with the discipline and training of MYSELF to do this everyday, what could that kind of discipline and training do for YOU?

2/14/2010 9:16:54 AM

Well, the X Stretch is done, and my body feels fantastic!  If you want to get your body in the shape it needs to be as a submissive or dominant, contact me about p90x!   Looking forward to hearing from submissives or slaves...

2/13/2010 8:48:00 AM

Today is a new day, and if any of you want a new body to go with a new day, contact me.  I just finished Kenpo X, part of the p90x exercise routine, and I feel great!  Sweating like hell, but I'll be in the best shape of my life in less  than 60 days! 

If you have any questions about bdsm, I can field those, too!  20+ years experience gives me a little bit of a knowledge base to operate from!

Have a great day!

2/12/2010 9:19:25 AM
Well, today is a new day, and I am searching for a submissive/slave who will enjoy my experience in BDSM and share new experiences with me.  Meanwhile, back and legs ane ARX are done.  only 7 more weeks, and the first round of p90x is done, and I'll be in the best shape of my life.  Interested in losing weight and getting in the best shape of your life?

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