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Hello there. As I haven't updated this profile in quite a while, I am giving this a sorely needed update. Please bear with me, as I may be adding to this erratically.

I am fairly new to the lifestyle, and more of a curious onlooker who has done some light scening in the past. I'm quite interested about the emotional aspects of a D/s relationship, although admittedly I have not had much experience with it.

At this time, I am seeking a more exclusive relationship with a submissive who is willing to possibly teach an inexperienced dom. While I would technically consider myself a switch since I have a submission fantasy every now and then, I am mostly on the dominant scale of things. Other than that others who are looking for a friendship are more than welcome to contact me... I'm willing and eager to learn more about the lifestyle from any source I can get.
3/20/2007 4:58:08 AM
Updated the profile again. Please give it a couple days; things have changed in the past few weeks.
1/23/2007 11:26:54 PM
Hm. Well, as I have stated, I am new here. I'm not even exactly sure what I am searching for in particular, but I believe that, like anything, it takes time to figure out. I am new to the 'scene', and I am generally a private player. I am truthful as to who I am and what I am about, even if it might not be what others wish to hear. My reasoning for this is simple: I don't wish to waste my time with people who aren't being truthful about who they are and what they want, so I won't lie about who I am and what I want. That is simple respect, and whether it is a one-night stand or a 24/7 TPE... if you're not being truthful you're going to get the shaft.

As I mentioned before, I am a switch but with Dom tendencies, actually rather strong ones in fact. While I do have a bit of a submission fantasy, it'd take a good amount of trust in order to actually submit. I'm really not much for 24/7, and would only consider it with a long-term relationship. At the moment I'm not interested in a vanilla partner, but if one is actually logged into this site I've got very major doubts as to how vanilla they are... heh.

I'm not fully looking for a partner at the moment, either. If someone comes along that I click with, then I will go for it. I'm also not going to relocate for a partner, nor will I do another online relationship. That is not my bag... local people only need apply. I will be willing to travel a couple of hours tops for a serious partner, but as with any potential partner I will need time to know them first. Choosing a sub isn't something to take lightly, especially if it is a long-term affair.

Will I actually find something off this site? Perhaps. If not, I'm perfectly okay with gaining new friends, especially those in the scene. I'd classify myself as a beginner, but 'ell, we're all beginners once, right?
goddesshelen
 
 Age: 18
 Singapore