For the past three years, I have been at odds with myself based upon my sexual needs and desires. I am trying to determine who and what will completely satisfy me.

I am in the process of discovering my sexual nature and am learning to accept the person that I am regardless of what the rest of the world thinks about my behavior or actions. I am becoming more comfortable with who I am as a person. I have made a decision to no longer settle for anything less to make everyone else in my life happy with my decisions.

I began my exploration as a submissive person, learning how to completely please my partner at the time. However, somewhere along the line I became bored and craved more that what I was receiving. I had the urge to not only submit to someone but to take control of the situation to fulfill my needs as well.

Until recently I did not realize it was possible to want to dominate a person, yet be willing to submit to someone as well; or that it was acceptable to enjoy both men and women equally. I thought it was one or the other and that I needed to determine which role would be more satisfying for me.

I am a dominant woman by nature and I am not able to easy submit to individuals, however I long to find that one person that will complete me and it not afraid to push every limit that I have, as well as letting me do the same in return.

Update:

I am new to this site and would like to clarify what I am looking for.

I am seeking a long term relationship with a man that lives within one hour of Indianapolis. Please do not contact me without sending me a picture.