Creative imaginative kinkster looking for a co-conspirator for fun and intense experiences while living inside a Clark Kent identity. Yes, I may look like an insurance salesman, but I actually have quite a bit of experience with all manner of alternative lifestyles. In an earlier life we were able to live this out, but now its normal normal normal. Enough! Not looking for a romantic relationship, as I am married. However, I am looking for an ongoing play relationship/friendship based on common interests. I'm not bound into any dom/sub category, but have the interest and experience to work out a role based on our specific chemistry. What I want is intensity. I once knew a lesbian domme who spent half her time tied up by her sub. didn't make sense at the time, but it does now. They had custom-tailored their relationship, and didn't give a damn what anyone else thought. That's my goal. And yours?