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Creepy People. There is this person on here or person's who are just creepy. I know if you are one of them, you will understand. Apparently something thinks they knew me or knows me and I honestly don't have a clue who it is. Ok, so you apparently didn't make that good of impression on me if I can't remember you or your screen name. And now you have a bizare name which makes you creepier. Like a termite. Pest, whatever. My life is good, better than good and I am very happy. Keep watching, I guess and you will just see how happy I really am. Why is it when you move a zillion miles from where you lived before, someone still seems to find you and say dumb things like " Oh, I remember you?" That makes one creepy. Go away my Rancho person. Not interested.
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We are not looking for any Male submissives or Male Dominants. Thank you for all the colorful mail and the compliments but we are only interested in the possibility of meeting a female submissive. We are looking for a " no strings attached" submissive at this time. We are not looking for someone to live with us nor are we looking to permanently change anyone's life.
Just a rewarding relationship for all parties.
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Things have been going great for us lately. We had talked to one woman who had decided to return to her husband. Lots of confusion but no drama. The Bruce does not allow drama. A simple, good bye. And life goes on.
Lots of people seem confused. Then the entire lifestyle comes with it's own set of confusion. Morals, relationships, roles, learning, giving up to only feel more fulfilled.
Basically people are good. Some need guidance, others just think they want guidance. Then realize it is not for them. But if we all didn't try, how would we learn what we want? What we need to grow.
As long as everyone remains true to themselves and their heart, doesn't lie, all will be fine.
Peace out... the words of slave violet. |
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Thoughts for the day: Kink is not always a group sport. Poly is not always better. There is sacrifice in every relationship and when one person isn't willing, there is no relationship.
Owning a slave comes with responsibilities, owning 2, comes with twice as much. Slaves should not financially support their Master. EVER! If you can't afford one, don't have one. SIMPLE.
I Love being a house slave. I am well kept. There isn't anything I wouldn't do for Bruce. I honestly feel there isn't anything he wouldn't do for me.
Kink is not a dark place, it is a lifestyle. One that comes with much thought, education, learning and love. My thoughts for the day. infyniti. |
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Have a safe and Happy 4th of July Week end all!!! Remember to NOT drink and drive. Remember to let the professionals use the fireworks and never forget what a wonderful country we all live in . USA!!! |
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The Bruce and i have plugged in the video camera for the week end. Last week end when we were playing, i turned around and could see him over my shoulder and see just the swing of the flogger and it was so exciting to see Him! Not to mention the true Sadist had such a smile and gleam in his eyes. So we are going to try to tape one of our play sessions this week end. Just something fun to add to our collection of photos 
The other night he bit my ass and left a bite mark for two days. He was smiling just as long. Somehow he forgot after he told me to go get the camera for a pic! I think it got carried away just looking at it...
Looking forward to a fun week end. 112 degrees outside but hoping it is HOTTER inside! |
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Some food for thought:
Collarme is a BDSM site. Master and i sat and read so many profiles this week end where the person's interests had NOTHING to do with BDSM!!! Of course we love garage sales, and fine dining, but wouldn't it be nice if some of these people actually listed what KINKY things they liked and didn't like? How easy that would be to match up. Why post a vanilla profile and a series of only vanilla interests but then post, I am truly a submissive...No, you are truly looking for someone to financially take care of you.
Try it... check interests and see how many do not even have ONE BDSM interest listed.
That is just too weird.
I can't go to my knitting group and list my interest as loving to be spanked but i can come to collarme and tell the world i love knitting...
what is wrong with this picture?
Feel free to send us a message and let us know.
Have a great night world. |
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Things here have been just fine. Had company come to visit on Sunday, so i had tons of things to plan. I forgot how tired one can get, cleaning, planning, socializing, toss in the pool time and dinner and serving... etc...BUT it was FUN! Yesterday I was tired and so was the Bruce as we both lacked a ton of sleep Sunday night. Oh well, summertime parties are so nice.
I am blogging on another site, and trying to keep up with it. Things we do etc. Or I guess that is the kinky things we do. Not sure what goes in the blog for days that we realize 24/7 doesn't mean D/s 24/7... oh well shall see how that goes.
Have a great day all!
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I added a new photo. But of course it will take a few days to show up I think. Well, if you look and see me in a green grass straw hat let me know. It was my Mother's Day outting. I think my flower child days are back.. LOL Always said I was a child of the Summer. Nope, not a little.... just don't ever really want to completely grow up. Takes the fun out of so much!! ~~infyniti~~ |
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Unapproachable, us? Someone sent us an email that said " why are you on here? your profile makes you unapproachable"
I don't think that to be true. ( says the silly little sub of this dynamic duo) 
We merely said that we are here looking to meet friends in the lifestyle. To attend events and such.
We are a very sexual BDSM couple and just are not wanting to share that with others. Hey, that is cool with us, should be cool with all of you.
So I will save my speech on how living like this leaves us worry free to STD's or even possible exposure. But most of all, when we play together things are really HOT. So the decision to Not add another to our dynamic duo was made by both of us.
Whatever happen to " just friends"? I am sure people hear it every day. Alteast this way you know exactly what to expect.
Simple.... JUST FRIENDS!
Have a great day. |
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May 10th 1999 The day i met " The Bruce". One of those cyber sort of dates where we met on alt.com and decided to meet in a public place. We met at a mall, in the food court. Never did eat. We talked forever. We went to a bar, we stayed until it closed. We sat in his truck for a really long time afterwards, talking.
We both lied that we weren't seeing anyone else. In time, we BOTH made it so. We weren't seeing anyone else. Since then we have been together, only us. Him and me. That is not only fine with us, it is what makes us tick! Wow... that was a LONG time ago! |
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We have been really busy lately but think the Spring Fever has gotten us back on track. Lots of family and vanilla things had been going on so we haven't been able to do some of the things we love. Well... now all seems to be settled and things for us are getting back to normal. Well... normal for us that is. |
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We have been so busy getting ready for the Holidays. Things have been hectic. i twisted my shoulder so Master is searching for another position to take the strain off. Of course, I pulled my shoulder while restrained.
Otherwise all is well. We continue to look for real people ( couples) who are lifestyle friendly to meet, share dinner with etc. And see what happens. The hard part is sometimes finding the real people. But they are out there. Afterall, we are! |
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We are doing well and still together ( which we anticipate will be forever) Celebrating our upcoming 6th Wedding Anniversary ( November 22nd) with a wonderful Thanksgiving getaway.
Haven't been to any public events in awhile. That has been ok with us lately, we have saved up that time for some kinky adventures.
We don't have a third person, no extra slaves, submissives, just US. We have found that works for US. Waving to all the wonderful people we have met over the many years we have been together!! HUGS |
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Tell me, why it so hard for a couple to find a third, esp. sub female? Oh, I know. Because it never works for any duration of time?
Gotcha. |
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A thought. Photoshop is a wonderful tool. I use it myself extensively. But when others use it to portray themselves in photos, what happens when one meets them in real life? Ok, I will give away the secret. They look NOTHING like the photoshop pix. Just a Thought. |
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It's been awhile since we updated our profile. So we did and added pictures. Pictures are so fun. Things haven't really changed since we updated last time. We are looking to make friends in the lifestyle and attend lifestyle events. We are not looking for another to join us, so please do not message us and ask.
We ARE looking for couples to socalize with only. |
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Looking for other couples in the lifestyle for fun and friendship. Let's meet for drinks or dinner and see if we have common interests. It is always fun to have dinner with other kinksters!! |
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We have been enjoying our new home, lifestyle and infyniti's full time house slave. It seems to bug some of our family members that infyniti is staying home but they are going to have to get used to it.
The Bruce has been working long hours to make this all happen. Amazing what he can make happen. |
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We have been really busy. Decorating the house, making some week end trips to San Diego. Stopping at my favorite Jo Ann's shop.
We are loving all this sunshine. Both of us have a great tan. Spending this week end at the pool. Oh... my cell phone went swimming.. UGH! Bruce ordered me a new one. Didn't want to get me the replacement insurance one cause I hated my phone. NOW... i will be able to download stuff and take pics with my new phone!! Just think... 6 months ago, we lived in a place that didn't even HAVE cell service. |
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Our search has come to an end. We have finally found a new home. I love it. Bruce loves it. Enuff said. Still unpacking and getting new things. I love that part.
This makes us official AZ residents now. Still kinky.... Bruce & flo ann |
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Master had decided that his hand would cover my entire ass cheek. So of course he needed to photograph this to show me. I am no longer allowed to ask if my ass is getting "wide or big"...He has this way of getting rid of my insecurities. He is spending the day at storage and I am spending the day in the hotel room cleaning up after a 15 day stay. Not sure where to put some of this stuff... need a trash bag. We are Not shipping the toy bag ahead .. Makes me very happy.
Oh well, back to work. |
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Soon to be heading out. Just after the week end. All is in storage... etc. Master has everything planned. I get to look thru houses on the internet so we can find a nice place once we get there.
Looking to others in AZ to find out what things are out there... Lifestyle wise that is. |
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I can't wait till the move, yet there is so much more to be done. Master is the " Master Mover" person. So organized. I just seem "lost". I have found that just by doing what he asks gets us through the packing. We officially sell our house tomorrow. Then I get to be a princess for 2 weeks in a hotel until we tie up loose ends. Then we are off. It is going to be such a wonderful adventure. I am so looking forward to it. Master can make all our dreams come true. Even when things scare me, he is awesome. I have spent my entire life in the snow and cold and i welcome the warmth SOOOO much. Then it will be time for house hunting!! 
I am officially in charge of decorating. I am going to love being the house slave. ( Can you see me smile) Officially retired!!!
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which in my case sort of looks like this because i can't swim... good reason to just float around and relax.