|
|
|
|
| I put OTHER because I am South American/West Indian (Caribbean), NOT African American and YES there is a difference.
A little about me:
I'm not new to the BDSM lifestyle, but everyone I knew was Vanilla. So I could never get to explore the side of me that was truly me. It isn't easy trying to explain to a Vanilla just what it is you want, and no matter what, they almost never get it right.
So since I never got a chance to explore the real me, I don't know exactly what it is that I'm searching for; but I do have an idea of what it is that I want.
I always fantasized about being controlled by a Dom that knew when to put me in my place, and when to praise me when I did good.
I want a Dom that doesn't have to immediately resort to physical punishment to let me know I'm wrong, but with just a certain look, the feel of his presence, and the tone of his voice could say it all.
I want to be filled with fear and longing at the same time knowing that I've been bad...
The disappointment of going from Vanilla to Vanilla has turned this fantasy into a burning desire that I can barely control.
What I'm actively seeking is someone that can basically teach me things, without it involving sex. A true Dom knows that trust must be established and limits known before a true sub gives themselves up completely.
Hopefully the right Dom is out there. Also, if there is anyone willing to train a non-Dom (Vanilla), I would greatly appreciate that too!!!
|
|
|
|
