Collarspace.com

I'm a well-educated, mature man looking for a slave. I don't post a public picture as that might impact my public and professional life but I do urge you to read a little further. If fate smiles on me then I'll find a slave to live in my house and serve me as I need. If that's you, you'll understand that a slave acts as she's instructed, dresses as she's told to, makes he body available when it's required and is rewarded with kindness and comfort. I am told that I'm kind, funny and interesting. I know myself well enough to understand that I like physical contact, I love tasting and touching a woman and my slave will understand how to provide for those things and how to live contentedly. If that slave is you, we'll talk until I sense you're comfortable enough to meet and then we'll meet until we're both comfortable enough to make a decision about the future. That will not be 'instant'. I'm not about to commit my future to whim and neither are you. So let's begin. Let's talk.
1/8/2017 3:43:07 PM
Some thoughts on a late Sunday afternoon: I read lots of complaints about how people act here. Well, yes, it is a more-or-less public space and public spaces attract predators, assholes and nitwits as well as the genuine, wonderful people who need to use the space for its stated purpose. I wish it weren't so but it is - and, by the way, it's not only guys who are guilty of poor behaviour here.

On that note, I was asked recently about 'the life' (by somebody who isn't in it). She asked, "But aren't all the people who do that kind of thing just damaged in some way?" Once I got past the "just" part of "just damaged" I acknowledged that, yes, there are people attracted to this life because they have profound problems and I've met one or two who have problems because of what happened to them in this life. That doesn't by any means cover everyone who enjoys BDSM. The vast majority I've met are in it because it speaks to a part of their personality that our regimented, vanilla, superficial and valueless lives don't.

Happy new year to all - to the seeking, to the found, to the sure and to the unsure but most of all to my favorite kind of people, the slaves. Bless every one of you.
11/18/2016 4:50:35 PM
For me the master/slave relationship isn't play, nor is it an add-on to our sex life. It is life.

My relationship with my slave is one of complete obedience, all day, every day. A smart man (and I hope I'm at least a little smart) knows his slave, her needs and wants and her likes and dislikes so that he can manage the relationship to both their best advantages.

At its core, though, the relationship is reality. It is the everyday. It goes from the slave knowing when to rise, what the requirements are for personal hygiene and what her day looks like and it goes all the way through life to the slave doing whatever is commanded of her to bring pleasure and ease to her master.

So many of those who call themselves 'slave' on this and other websites don't mean that at all. Oh they might mean that they'll act submissive when they feel like it. They might mean that they like to be tied up when fucking or they might mean nothing at all apart from a way to attract a partner - but they don't mean what I mean when I say 'slave'.


11/5/2016 3:03:38 PM
A few days on and a few nice conversations with interesting people - so it's been worth posting here.

One amusing message, supposedly from a young woman in KY, who simply said, "Are you serious?". I've been told by a friend that it's not unusual for men to get that message from trolls claiming to be women. That's okay. I'm not about to complain about anyone speaking his or her mind. The only disappointment is that when I responded, "Rarely." I got no further response. Oh well, perhaps that's as much conversation as 'she' had in her.


11/2/2016 1:25:12 PM
Interesting. My profile (such as it is) has been up for one whole day and, in that time i've contacted one woman and she was kind enough to respond.

In that same time I've been contacted by two 'slaves' with suspiciously poor English and suspiciously beautiful pictures, each telling me how much they'd love to be '24/7 slave for kind master'. Thanks for the smiles, girls.

I've also been viewed by the above, one nice trannie, one dominant male (?) and one nice, interesting-but-not-a-potential-partner switch (who I know I'd enjoy talking to, despite the not-a-potential, etc.).

A good day on CS. Enjoyed the smiles and the brief conversations.
queelo
 
 Age: 23
 Northport, Alabama