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I'm a divorced artist, a potter living in Woodstock, NY. Difficult to describe myself. Although I enjoy a social life with friends, parties etc I also tend to be a loner. Tend to be insightful. Enjoy good food, fine wines, engaging conversation and beautiful women. Don't get me wrong re women; the sexiest part of a woman is that organ that lies behind the eyes and between the ears. In other words smarts trump looks in my book.
I'm a switch. My Sub side gives me good insight to make me a better Dom. Love to have a woman dictate what I'm to do, although not into heavy pain or humiliation. Got into this by way of a GF who wanted to be spanked and at times tied up. When I first spanked &/or paddled her I didn't want to hurt her but was ordered to hit harder. When I saw her pussy juices running down her thighs I realized the pleasure I was giving her through pain. I couldn't believe the pleasure she got out of tying her down and fucking her in the ass as well as her pussy. And having her perform fellatio etc. It seemed everthing we did while she was tied gave her tremendous more pleasure than without being tied.
Just for the hell of it we tried switching. I took to that as well.
That's how it all started for me.
Note; I think it's real important that there 's respect and love in all this for the best of experiences. I don't mean Hollywood "True love" we know that's BS but the love that comes of shared close experiences and feelings. I feel it's equally important to discuss these feelings with your partner. It gives a larger dimension to the sexual pleasure as well as enhancing it.
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