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I thrive on everything mental and find nothing more fulfilling than crawling inside the right woman's beautiful head. What's between your ears is #1. Everything else comes from that. Everything.
I'm a very kinky and creative guy who is married and we are in an open relationship. That being said, I don’t date around a lot. I’m currently looking for the right partner in crime, someone who, like me, hasn’t tried it all but who might if the chemistry was right, someone who would want to eventually have an actual functioning relationship with all of its ups and down. I’m a real person and need actual deep connection to function best sexually and otherwise.
I love a great deal of music and I play several instruments as well. Bonus points if you do or if you’ll at least sing with me :) I’m at home outdoors, I love to read, I probably think too much and there are few things I adore like talking intimately late into the night between bouts of outrageous sex. I'm comfortable in my skin, intense and passionate but I’m not a fickle man. We are here for such a short time; life should be lived fully with people who mean something to us. I also have an awful lot of kinks and fetishes. It’s ok if you don’t know what yours are. In some ways, that could be even better...but an open mind is crucial if we are to connect.
Along those lines, there are a couple of things that truly make my clock and cock tick. They are:
1) Tantalism (my handle on Fetlife is Tantalizer and I run the Tantalism channel there). Tantalism is an artform unto itself and one of orgasm control where my partner is brought to the edge, aching to cum, as she is toyed with mercilessly. Again and again she is brought to the brink, shuddering, begging, yearning with every fiber of her being but denied at the last possible moment repeatedly until I'm satisfied. What satisfies me? That seems to change on a daily basis but a good and observant little girl can learn these things if she tries hard, something I admire deeply in a submissive.
This can be a very intimate and very intense form of play and must be taught slowly and with a lot of patience, something I am fortunately blessed with (in all areas of play actually). The release, when finally allowed, is nothing short of interstellar. Sometimes it’s given quickly and sometimes not. If you haven’t experienced it, it may be hard to believe at first but not being allowed to orgasm for longer and longer periods of time can also have its own unique rewards. Your clit just stirred at the very thought, didn’t it? That beautiful swollen little thing doesn’t lie. It can't.
2) Leaving your comfort zone. I love helping a woman find that she enjoys something she didn't think she would like. If she gets embarrassed or humiliated in the process but can't help but enjoy herself anyway, all the better. There are fewer things more arousing to me than making a girl blush and your shame, discomfort and pain are my pleasure in every way. If they are your pleasure as well, then we are indeed two peas in a pod, aren’t we?
As you might have guessed, I have a funny/wicked lighthearted side for sure. I'm actually sane, safe, consensual, down to earth and I love to laugh and joke around. But I most definitely have very dark desires and I like to push. You can find yourself laughing with me one minute only to discover yourself bent over, caned and fucked the next. That's just the way I'm built.
I need a very submissive partner but I don't enjoy being with a limp fish or doormat. I'm attracted to a woman with a spark, a twinkle in her eyes and an eagerness for exploration and shared intimacy. I also deeply appreciate a woman who expects a lot of herself because I do the same.
For the record, I love women and consider them to be my total 100% equal. I may call you every filthy name in the book and do the most unspeakable things with you but I will never think less of you. After all, what is dark without light? What is a lake without water and what is pride without shame? Shall we find out?
*10 bonus points if you read this far. Maybe 20.
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