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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  Seattle, Washington
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How do you summerize who you are and what you like in the fewest amount of words? I've no clue so here goes I hope I don't bore you too much.
I was sexual at a very early age. I liked kissing girls, a lot. Never was a problem till I got caught kissing a cousin on my stepfathers side. I liked bondage at an early age. I would tie up this girl named Cindy with her scarves. She liked it as much as I did. Seriously, she even brought the scarves. I learned early on that I liked control, I would have Cindy and another girl, Veronica do my homework. I would firmly hold Veronica's hands behind her back while I kissed her. We would get all excited, I remember a lot of restless nights. Even through all this I never thought what I enjoyed as wrong or kinky. I really didn't have anything to compare it to. It wasn't like I went to others and asked do you tie up others too? It wasn't till I was 20 that I really knew what it was and that other people did the same things too. I met Sherry at a bar in Fayetteville NC. I was very upset, no I was fucking mad, that I was denied a job I had really wanted. So I went out for a beer and to blow off some steam. So there I was at my favorite bar, pissed and the bartender that nite didn't like me. So when he walked by me for the 4th time. I pounded my fist on the bar and very sternly demanded my beer. Normally I am a very laid back and reserved guy, but I wasn't in the mood to take any passive agressive shit from the guy. He was so surprised that he served me my beer without a word and walked away quickly. Sherry was across the bar taking it all in. Next thing I know she's buying me my next beer and starting up a conversation. Long story short, she was sexually submissive in bed. She introduced me to BDSM, Spanking, flogging, rope bondage, and fisting. She gave definition to the things I've been doing all along. Some of which I never thought I would enjoy. She gave me a flogger and asked me to pretty please hit her because she's been a naughty girl, I was a little reluctant. After all I've been hit with a leather belt as a child and I knew I didn't like it. So why would someone else? I took hold of that leather braided flogger and I started to swing it across her bottom. The first swings were soft and gentle, her light moans echoed lightly in the room. I grew excited, so I decided that some more heft in my swing was due. A small smile spread across my lips. My excitement grew to a fever pitch, as was hers. I laid down the flogger and the next morning I knew who I was to be. Do I abuse the females I play with? Certainly, you only hurt the ones you love, but only if they consent to it. I've never emotionally hurt someone I played with. Physically? Yes, I leave marks, I love to bite, pinch, and nibble, but never without their consent. I never degrade a playmate, unless they want me to. I still love to tie females up. I enjoy Daddy play, but only with the right person. I love control, but not total, it's too exhausting after a while. I prefer someone with their own personality, drive, dreams, imagination, ambition, intelligence, passion, sensuallity, and sexuallity. Type of women I like, The young girl on NCIS, Abbey. The young girl on Six Feet Under, the one with the lips. Lisa Loeb also because of the lips. Jennifer Love Hewitt, when I crave breasts. Voluptous women, because they can be soft and full.

If this interests you let me know...













 Dominant Male



 5' 2"

 145 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

 Lives For:

 Antique Shows

 Movies (Expert)



 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community (Expert)

 Being Massaged (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Rituals (Expert)

 Spanking you (Expert)



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets (Beginner)

 Garage Sales

 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires

 Volunteerism (Expert)

 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 You wearing my collar (Expert)

 Corner Time


 Electrical Play

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Rear End Play

 Fire Play


 Hair Pulling

 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Expert)

 Public Play

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Art Collecting




 Lifestyle BDSM




 Bar Hopping

 Beachcombing (Expert)


 Fine Dining


 Raves (Beginner)




 Canes and Crops

 Erotic touch


 Placing you on a leash

 Sensation Play

 Role Playing

 Alternative Medicine


 Candle Making


 Online Auctions





 Intellectual Discourse

 Paranormal Phenomena



 Old Guard



 Feng Shui



 Bird Watching (Beginner)

 Going to the Opera (Beginner)

 Curious About:

 Gambling (Beginner)




 Modern Paganism


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Journal Entries:
5/2/2008 12:07:41 AM

So much rope and no one to use it on....

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