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Update: now in California and established. I hope you are having a fantastic day!

Greetings and welcome,

I was drawn to this site because I have a host of interests and urges that fall well outside the norms of polite society.

First and foremost, I am a real person, not a charactercher. I fear, partly out of escapism, people project a fantasy rather than trying to touch the true stones of reality. At times, a reality, that I feel I may have touched far too much of too early.

Which draws me to my choice of user name. I was the daughter of a Marine, and as such took pride in history and survival. As a little girl I became obsessed with Norse mythology and the ideas and stories of Valkyries. Rather than a little princess, I sought to be a Valkyrie.
Unfortunately, my father was KIA and I ended up becoming a very rageful adolescent and teen still grasping that persona.

Later on, I developed a healthy relationship with someone that changed my prospective a bit. They were passionate and true humanitarian, but also met fatal misfortune whilst attempting to help Syrian Refugees in the middle East. The eminence of their character still resonates within me casting an odd mix of fluid and personal emotions.

That mix drew me to the character of Brnnhilde, which I fine fitting of myself.

That brings to more the you question, whom ever you are, and what I may seek in you. I wanted to share a little of the craft that forged who I am to convey a sense of the true and lack of false drama developed. I have always been fascinated with exploring different things, talking to people from disparate backgrounds and seeing the world from unique perspectives. Most people, through their own lived experiences, have something to bring to any table if they find the air to put behind their voice. So mostly, I simply want to learn new things and meet people that are unmuzzled by the public morays of a society that knows not the sacrifice fine men and women have made to insure their freedoms.

All that said, if you do choose to message me, please do so with respect. I did not intend on sharing what I have as some sort of sob story or to seek grievance or sympathy. True, I have been through the emotional meat grinder, and in some ways, am stronger for it. I am naturally dominant and enjoy a good fight of mind or flesh.

I know I am not alone in having ones world dashed only to press on for a vision of what one wish was true. To better understand, I think Robert Browning cast it better than I could from Paracelsus

At times I almost dream
I too have spent a life the sages way,
And tread once more familiar paths. Perchance
I perished in an arrogant self-reliance
Ages ago and in that act a prayer
For one more chance went up so earnest, so
Instinct with better light let in by death,
That life was blotted out not so completely
But scattered wrecks enough of it remain,
Dim memories, as now, when once more seems
The goal in sight again.

To be clear I am not a pro-domme or the like. This is in no way bashing their services, simply not my cup of tea.

In the more basic levels of interest - I am a musician, an avid runner (every day), a bit of a nerd, read historical book, non-fiction and poetry appreciate other cultures and traditions, cook a vast array of different food (angled for health) and am addicted to traveling the world and seeing all it has to offer. I am also a student and work in the medical field.

Please feel free to message me and I will do my best to craft an appropriate response. Frankly, I do not mind one liners, but do not expect much response from such communications.

I have been very busy with school and work, so please do not be offended if I am unresponsive. I am mostly just chatting with some friends on here these days.

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danicamendoza
 
 Age: 25
  California