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| So I've had some in person experience being in control however they were more into vanilla sex and wanted to experiment with bdsm. I've had more online experience's which are harder but a good stepping stone to build trust imo. I like being in control, I'm not someone who just wants to just beat the crap out of someone just because. Having someone who does what you want without forcing them is the best feeling in the world.
I like to think i have a better understanding of pain more then the average guy. The best way to learn is to do it yourself first. When i was younger i decided to brand myself so there is a scar on my shoulder(should beable to see it in my pictures) and from that i figured out just how much something can hurt and don't want to inflict pain on someone when they aren't ready for it.
Alot of guys on here seem to think being a dom means they instantly get to control everything a sub/slave gets to do, when dom/sub usually takes longer to trust each other since more in on the table and trust is really important when someone is tied up and loses control.
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