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Well Mt new boy moves in permanenty in 7 days. Santa was very good to Me this year! |
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Well after alot of digging I have finally found one I shall move in. Good luck to you A/all. |
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Well it took a long time although finally I found one whom is not only willing to come from behind his computer; he also knows what being in the service of One truly is. |
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Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so you shall become. Your vision is the promise of what you shall one day be; your ideal is the prophecy of what you shall at last unveil.
James Allen
A daydream is a meal at which images are eaten. Some of us are gourmets, some gourmands, and a good many take their images precooked out of a can and swallow them down whole, absent-mindedly and with little relish.
-W. H. Auden
A dream becomes a goal when action is taken toward its achievement.
-Bo Bennett
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It never fails to amaze Me that those whom only desire fantasy, are willing to submit only their own terms, who only desire the play or who are simply too lazy to work towards reality feel the need to bother Us/us who both know what reality is and are prepared to offer it.
Everything mentioned here exists on here. Find your own kind and enjoy it. Then let Those of Us/us whom truly desire the reality of living this as a lifestyle get down to the business of working towards it.
Ms Lori |
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~smiles~ Lifeis ironic in that when you begin to lose the beauty it send a reminder of what was and what should be. Renewing faith that can become so easily lost if One fails to remember what it should be about and not what common presentation may be.
Ms Lori |
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Wishing for SomeOne or something has never made it happen; rather it keeps it as a nice fantasy. For reality to happen one must have a plan of action and the courage to carry it out beyond wishing into life.
Ms Lori |
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A slave who submits his wallet and not his time is no slave at all. he is a customer.
Ms Lori |
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No matter how hard I try to understand the new wave of bdsm I never failed to be surprised at how very little subs are willing to do to "live" this lifestyle as they say. I have ost track of how many times I have been told driving an easy distance is too far. The same can be said for schedules I was excpected to fit into, hoops I have been asked to jump through or ideal I should succumb to.
This leaves two very real questions:
1. who is really serving who?
2. If a day tripis too far how areyou ever going to meet One?
The likelyhood of One being across the street is a million to one.
~shakes head~
Ms Lori |
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For every little boy who screams there are no real Dommes out there I can show you a bored businessman, married boy or do me submissive (and I use the term loosely here) that has nothing better to do then play on their computer. They have no intention of coming from behind it.
Reality. Well although slim does exist in minuscule amounts and would look very good under My tree this year. |
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What a hard life that of a slave.
To let go of all ideals that came before to live a life of servitude to One.To never again know with certainty if one's request will be heard never mind honoured. To let go of one's fantasies and deepest desires to be moulded to Hers. Most of all to have the strength and the fortitude to take that first step knowing all this and beginning a reality so unknown.
Ms Lori
October 15, 2010 |
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Hmmm There may be some creadence to the young men out there. They seem far more ready to make reality happen. Good for them! |
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you know it used to take Me a week, perhaps a month to find one was presenting themselves as less then they were or capable of. Today it took ten minutes. Truly have some pride in yourself as that can not even be classified as good entertainment. Reading one website for ten minutes WILL NOT fool any Domme that knows what She is doing! |
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I hadn't realized just how long it had been since I wrote in here. I suppose that is more to stop it from being a place to simply complain and I took time away from here.
After being back awhile now I have noticed there are still many profiles complaining of lack of reality. Believe Me when I say there are just as many bored businessmen and husbands playing from work as there are bored housewives. lol There is however some reality here as well as I have met a few and so rather then complain I thought I would leave some things to look over so those of you who truly want reality have a better chance of finding it. Take from it as Y/you choose:
1. This like anything else takes both time and effort. If you want effort give it. Speaking from work is not optimal as there are interuptions. Set aside time. If O/one is only willing to speak from work it is most likely best to run.
2. If your submissive and are given a directive that seems either time consuming or does not make sense follow through. Never does a Dominant hand out anything without a purpose even if that purpose is to simply have you comply.
3. Follow through on both sides is important be it task or punishment/reward. O/one that does not follow through here shall not in life.
4.Wishing you were there does not make it so and become nothing more then pretty words if said enough. If your going to say it then be prepared to have a plan so it becomes more then a wish.
5. If one is only willing to submit if this, this and this condition is met; Run. They then are here to meet their own needs and not Yours. They are usually the first to disappear as well.
6. Be careful what you wish for. Y/you may just get it and not always will be able to handle it. Be prepared for as many bumps in this journey as well.
7. Last although very important DO NOT be afraid to ask for reality. Challenging reality puts both in the position of either meeting or finding out O/one is simply playing.
Happy Hunting A/all! |
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Well the weekend led to a touch of reality from here and I was most pleased. If you dig long enough One can actually find a diamond amongst the rubble. |
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There would be far more success if people were honest with what they desire. If you desire simply a play partner then say it. If you desire to relocate only within your area then state it. If you are interested in indulging your own fetishes say so.
It saves much time on both parties when O/one knows what they are embarking on in the begining. |
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Lord knows we have all been frustrated by fakes and players and complained about them. There is more lip service then true service here and we have come to expect it. I have found Myself confused lately however.
Just when did this become a vanilla dating site? There seems to be more and more profiles reading as such. |
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It is interesting to watch the growing trend on conditional service. By the time One adds up all the reasons one is not going to bend or unwilling to do or better yet One must be this and that no wonder there are so many disappointed journals. Lol Expecting a Dominant after all to cater to ones own whims and desires is simply vanilla with kink. |
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To realize your dream you will need to step out of that which has become comfortable. you will need to show Her your worth and follow Her agenda. Most if all if you want to be taken seriously you must also be serious. |
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The best way to avoid games is simply not to play them at all. |
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