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I'm looking for a woman for an eventual long term 24/7 relationship. My interests tend toward TPE, where I have the final say about all aspects of your life, not just in the bedroom. If your life is a mess and you can't manage it, expect to be micromanaged, at least in the beginning. However that isn't a requirement, or even desirable, after I determine how capable you are of managing certain aspects of your life. Your improvement, both in your service to me and in general, is important to me and I consider helping you to become a better person as part of my responsibility to you. It will also likely be necessary in order for me to tolerate you for any length of time. I will use a mixture of pleasure and pain, in both mental and physical realms, to achieve the desired results. The exact mixture depends on what you respond to best, but there will also be some of each, because I enjoy both. I'm not the type to make you do stupid things just for the sake of it, punishments must be earned. You should be open to relocating to Colorado. This probably isn't practical if you live outside the US, so I'll view those responses with skepticism. On Attraction While some level of attraction is important, your submission is far more so. However, if you are than around a size 8-10, expect a diet to be one of your first tasks. On Public / Private I am a private person. I will still expect your obedience in public or family situations, but I'm not about to get a crop out at a nice restaurant, or a dive for that matter. I'll give you a look, and you'll get back in line. How quickly you get back in line will help determine your punishment, as well as when you get the privilege of being seen with me in public again. On Drugs and Drinking I don't do drugs, and while I think they should for the most part be legal, there's far too much risk in having them in my home to allow you do bring them in to it. I do enjoy a good single malt scotch, a glass of red wine, and beers of varying qualities from Belgian to PBR, depending on the occasion. I don't drink to the point were it affects my judgement or behavior, and you shouldn't either. The point is, neither of us should be impaired. On Limits I expect you to have relatively few limits, but they should include kids, animals, scat, blood (beyond a scratch) and permanent bodily harm.
lonenymph
 
 Age: 28
 Los Angeles, California