It's been a slow but eventful evolution. 12 years or so. Vanilla Wannabe - Enthusiastic Scene Player - Sardonic Sadist Head Fuck - these days I am mainly the latter. How lucky we are when we are spared what we think we want.

Me? A bundle of appetites. A drinker of raw tap water, beer and red wine; A fearless trusting consumer who only reads labels to make sure there are plenty of additives. A strange attitude for someone who does Yoga but Heaven is a Half Moon(pose)or so I have found.

At a more earthly (or should that be guttural) level , sadism, hard fucking, blowjobs, filthy talk and lesbian porn float my boat mostly. I am privately but unashamedly sadistic. A user and owner of submissive women. A penchant for painful predicaments and verbal abuse with an old fashioned charm and chivalry. Stalking and kidnap, humiliation, and of course the R-word...I love the thrill of the hunt and living out the fantasies that continuously swirl around in my head.

When the Hairy Boys are off duty I have many other interests. I love books of course and good conversation. I work out every day. I am fit, confident, urbane, well read and highly intelligent.I'm not interested in anything scene related (munches, clubs and such) preferring the company of vanilla friends every time.

So then, you will be seeking a demanding, uncompromising Top who will use you like a cheap whore. I do not negotiate conditions, I can send a no list with an invitation to take it or leave it.

Very rarely do I speculatively memo anyone on this site. If you are interested in getting to know me make it clear in your first message.

Please! No bi-polar, mood dysfunctional, schizophrenics or manic-depressives - sell crazy somewhere else, I'm all stocked up here.

I am not interested in male subs, munches, fetish clubs, cyber relationships, chatrooms, BBW's, roleplay, Switching, Gor. 24/7 TPE and similar.