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| I am not a stereotype or a cliche. I'm not the traditional master type dressed in leather, mask over face looking moody or tying you in a thousand knots suspended from the ceiling. I am a contradiction of sorts. The respectful, supportive, sensitive, nurturing guy, the guy that's there when you've had a tough day, when your feeling low and need to be held tightly and told everything will be ok. I'm also the deviant guy that wants to train you, violate you, treat you like his property, to use you when he craves you and punish you when you deserve it.
I want a partner in crime so to speak. A submissive who compliments me, who fills my void. Who has a certain level of intellect but can make me laugh as much as I do her, the type where we can discreetly coexist as a vanilla couple when necessary and yet our dynamic is always there simmering underneath. Someone who I can share my inner most thoughts, twisting of innocence, taboos and extremities and who relishes the same ideas.
My BDSM map is a little erratic in-terms of dos and donts, but at their core the things I love most centre on power exchange, rather than bondage. The mental side is important to me. To delve much deeper than skin deep, learning every facet of your personality, what makes you tick? What do you ache for? What makes you wince? The little things to the lifestyle choices, BDSM or otherwise, empowerment comes from getting inside your head. I love pushing limits and playing with opposites am always fair, give credit where it's due and swift to punish when necessary. I love a submissive who likes to tease, who enjoys toying with innocence or being a little disobedient on purpose. I do not like overly excessive brattish behaviour.
When it comes to sex itself I have a certain primal instinct and prefer a hands on approach. I love rough sex, biting, scratching, anal, hair pulling, spanking, gripping my hand tightly around your throat, clawing my nails down your buttocks and marking my territory. I find flesh on flesh more engaging and intimate. I don't dislike the odd toy either. That means needles, medical play, ropes aren't my thing. Nor am I interested in self styled 'painsluts'. Pain for the sake of pain doesn't inspire me. I'm no bully, nor am I here to beat you within an inch of your life.
I have approximately 10 years BDSM experience. Every submissive I've had the pleasure to be involved with has been unique. I believe that relationships develop organically and our BDSM dynamic will be moulded by our very own special connection. I prefer a DD/lg dynamic by design, with or without ageplay although it's not a deal breaker more an ideal. I would adore a LTR with a very kinky, perverted little baby girl but ultimately a good relationship is based on mutual respect and a connection away from BDSM.
Away from this domain I enjoy watching box sets ala Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead etc, following my soccer team and going to gigs and concerts. I'm a big metal and industrial fan so if you're ever up for a gig buddy count me in. :) I love to get to music festivals when I can like Resistanz, Infest, Bloodstock, Wave Gotik Treffen etc. Also love to travel and have been lucky enough to go to lots of exciting places from Iceland and Germany to Australia and America.
If you want to know more drop me a line. I promise I'll bite.
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