I'm a divorced slave seeking someone to belong to. Generally I am a kind and patient person to those I know, and am pretty cold and uncaring to those I don't. I would much rather focus my time and energy to those close to me. I get really ticked at hiprocracy, esp. when I'm the one being hypocritical, so do please point it out to me if/when I am. I'm not terribly good with words, though I can get by in most circumstances, I think I excell in ideas though. I think very well abstractly and can often see solutions that are far off the beaten path. I am creative though still fumbling for ways to express it. I'm creative, energetic, pleasing. I'm open to age, but I'm looking for someone experienced (30 - 60) - or confident and willing to learn. I'm pretty and curvatious.

I'd like to meet someone who enjoys control and has fun being in charge. I like to play in public and private, and I would enjoy meeting someone who really likes the Scene and is interested in the Community.

My play can be extreme. I desire to serve, to show my spirit and creativity, to please, to be used. This aspect of my personality is my most submissive, the lust for the pain and pleasure of my owner. To seek the fun and games of control, and to also obey and respect. To show my will is given from my desire and my longing is to please. My interests are heavily into service, bondage, sex, and pain. I'm not a sassy disobedient type, but my will is confident and strong. I'm not passive *smile* I'm submissive. I do not disobey to get punishments, I delight in being good at obedience. Pain is a reward. Punishment would be disapproval. I also have a fulfilling and independent life outside of my SM interests.

I would definitely consider a couple, or a poly group, or a dom and sister slaves situation, or a polyamorous lifestyle. I'm bi. I adore playing with other girls. I have a sense of self outside of my submission and obedience, and I feel this brings more to what I have to offer you. Things I'm turned on by are anal, electricity, breast and nipple play, fisting, spankings, food play and bondage. Things I'm not turned on by are objectification and toilet play. I'm never bad to get attention, I take great pride in obedience and I like to please. I adore being dressed up however you'd like to see me. I'm not a party-girl. I work hard and play hard. I have creative hobbies and I'm into strong friendships.

My communication is honest, clear, and direct, and as I take my submission seriously, I also believe in fun. BDSM is a playful and edgy and wild yet also as much demanding of character and the best in ourselves, I believe.