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	Plump submissive woman seeks your firm guidance. In public, I'm a strong, feminist, educated professional. In private, I crave the comfort of subspace. Indecision is paralysis, I grow under your direction. My limits exist, but with time and earned trust, they can be expanded. Corporal punishment is a must. Forced oral sex is highly desirable. Bondage, humiliation, rough sex from behind are highly desirable. With enough warming up, you cannot hurt me. Due to medication and background, I cannot climax. I do experience a catharsis from the harsh treatment of a confident, experienced master; I cannot forsee a future without such a master in my life. Right now, I am not in search of a romantic relationship, but I am not closed to the opportunities that present themselves.

6/17/2013 6:29:23 PM

I couldn't figure out why I was so anxious with an admittedly attractive and interesting man. Describing himself as an "experienced Dom" and having been in the life for >15 years... And then I realized I was calling the shots. All the shots. I was pushing his limits, and not the other way around. I was topping from the bottom and I REALLY DIDN'T LIKE IT.

5/20/2013 5:37:28 PM

I should think this would be obvious, but... You are highly unlikely to get a reply if... ...you have no profile (face) pic (something about me obviously attracted you, and I suspect it was not my witty profile...at first). ...your message could just as easily been sent to every other sub on the site (this lifestyle is work...lazy on the first message is not a good precedent). ...you live far away, are unlikely to be in town visiting regularly, or aren't interested in face-to-face encounters. I'm primarily interested in a physical relationship. ...you use terms like slut, whore, bitch, slave right off the bat. I'm called all those things, but only after trust has been earned! ...your grammar and writing make it clear I'm your intellectual superior. It is hard to submit if I know I'm smarter and wittier.

3/15/2012 6:24:52 PM

What is the cruelest punishment a masochist can receive? A prescription for Coumadin. Taking a break from the life while my body heals.

9/19/2011 9:51:02 PM

I don't yahoo. Sorry. When (and if) the time comes, we can meet for coffee.

9/6/2011 5:02:02 AM

I am slowly getting through my inbox – it is a point of honor with me that I respond to every person, in the order I received their first message.

A few suggestions which may improve your chances (in general):

1. Grammar counts

2. Details count. I completely understand not wanting to post photos/interests/personal details in your profile – CM does not hide these things from the general public. But – if you are going to message me, tell me something about yourself. I don't mean your job or your politics or what you love about your city. Tell me your kink. Tell me what you would do to me in our first session. What was your first S/m experience? When did you know a vanilla existence would not suffice?

3. I'm an intellectual – wicked smart – and my ideal Dom controls my mind as much as my body. How do you get inside my head?

4. I live in the DC Metro area. I cannot travel extensively, and I am looking to meet up with someone eventually. It would take a very special Dom for me to relocate. All of this means that locals are preferred, and those from far away must make their case.

I'm having a great deal of fun reading your messages, keep them coming!

9/1/2011 12:24:07 PM

I am getting a lot of fascinating responses...please do not be upset that I have not replied! I will, as soon as I am home from work.