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Sola virtus nobilitat (Virtue alone enobles). On the road of life, there is a big difference between a road block and a hurdle. I strive "to live deliberately, I want to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life" as Henry David Thoreau wrote. "There are NO ORDINARY MOMENTS!" - Dan Millman. So, I savor this moment as I peck at my keyboard as preciously as I will savor the moment when you first talk to me or message me. I am searching for my Gap Filler. If you are my future partner/sub/slut/slave/toy/pet/personal assistant/friend, please read on! If you do not live within driving distance of my home (<5 hours) or are not willing to relocate, PFO. (NO WAIT! I have discovered many outstanding, strong, self-aware women out there beyond my "distance comfort zone" I have come to understand that I need to be flexible with my unwillingness to relocate to be with you. If you can convince me that we are worthy enough for each other, I will come to see you wherever you are, except Antarctica! LOL). If you live on another continent and want someone to send you money for traveling expenses, you are barking up the wrong kinkster. I have a good BS detector and I'm not afraid to use it. If you are truly my gap filler, I will come to meet you (and your chaprones) and we will decide together where we want to be. I tend to take myself too seriously at times. So, If you are not a patient, forgiving woman, please fuck off. ;oD. the problem with taking myself too seriously is that I sometimes get into trouble. Ive lived my life so far by enjoying as many fetishes as I can, given who I was with and where I lived at the time. I would even go so far as to say that I am a 24/7 fetish fiend. I found this site a couple of months ago and was drawn to your passion for things kinky and sexual. I haven't had personal experience with whips and floggers although I have successfully bound a wife/girlfriend or two. In my tour through , I was excited to discover the world of BDSM and was immediately drawn to it. Yes, I AM single. I live alone with my Newfoundland dog on the Prairies of Canada. I am financially secure and an avid outdoorsman/wilderness camper. I love road trips and hope you do too, cause we are going places! So, I am on a quest to find myself... and I am enjoying the journey. I am a sensual man. I savor the flavors of fine food and fine wines. I know I will savor the flavor and the scent of your pussy and your skin. I love basking in beautiful, sensual aromas. I will likely get aroused when I hear your heartbeat quicken from your arousal. I will smile lustfully when I look deep into your eyes. I crave to feel your moist sweaty skin and to feel you shudder under my lash. I want to hear you cry out! and I crave to hold you gently in my arms as you come back to earth. I will whisper in your ear and gently kiss that place on your neck. And then I'll SMACK your ass until it turns flaming red. (well, maybe not all in that order) ;oD I don't expect you to kneel before me just because I told you to. When the time comes, you will WANT to kneel whether I tell you or not. I have lived my life feeding and being fed by people's/partner's energy. I am somewhat of a free spirit and I hope you are too. i love the concepts of Safe Sane & Consensual; your kink is not my kink and Risk Aware Consensual Kink. I prefer a younger woman who is vital, curious, committed to personal growth, into the adventure of life, sensual, and has a high sex drive. If you are a woman closer to my age, I will consider you if are fit and have the sex drive/energy to keep up. It's not about age, it's about the energy flow between us. When we are together, I will feed on your energy and i will enhance your energy as you grow more excited. We will dance the erotic dance of Dom and sub until we both explode I am seeking intimacy... including energetic, intellectual, spiritual, emotional and sexual. The intimacy experienced between a top/bottom; dom/sub is a deep example of both spiritual and emotional intimacy, ya it's sexy too. Speaking of intimacy... I had a vasectomy after my last daughter was born and I'd be happy to show you the scars (did you know that you can't SEE a vasectomy scar? You have to FEEL it!). Ya, so, unwanted fertilization is not a risk with me. I have the Gift of A.D.D. I get distracted sometimes but I also can hyperfocus which allows me to direct my creative juices. I've been a producer/director of special events, a jazz dance troupe, interactive theatre; as well as years as a dance music disk jockey (mobile and nightclub). In all of that I had outlets for my creativity that I enjoyed very much. I have found that my creative careers have given me the skills to be an excellent Dom/Master. As a producer, I have to know my audience prepare a show/scene that will give them joy and happy memories. As a Disk Jockey, I read my room to ie fashion) and their mood. I present music to the room gradually so that even the most timid participant is not threatened. I change the energy of the music (sometimes subtly, sometimes dramatically) to give them something to get their pulses going... then I calm them down so that they feel safe, relaxed and at peace. The entire evening consists of sets or cycles of music and activities (Yes, I am an Interactive MC) all of it is based on energy flow. Sometmes, I time the peak or highest energy point of the evening to be close to the end of our time (so they can calm down and compose themselves OR I plan their peak for the last stroke of the night. They are so excited and full of energy that they don't want to stop and they clamor for more. Ya. Domming a scene is like that. I am unpartnered (I have the papers to prove it). I was in a LDR here on with a woman from Nova Scotia. But it seems her interest has dropped off... Ya, well.. I'm over it. I've been living a lifestyle of work/home alone/work/home alone/etc. and it has understandably become quite unsatisfying. I had a "Massive and Miraculous" (doctors words) stroke a few years ago. I have a new appreciation for life and have begun a lifestyle of squeezing the juice of life out of each moment. I didn't lose any mobility from the stroke but I did lose partial sense of touch on my left side. Now, I want to fill the emptiness I've had with a new "lifestyle" and here I am. I am not looking for kink in the bedroom or to get laid. I am sincerely wanting/needing a new lifestyle that has completely new sets of priorities, goals and satisfaction/fulfillment. It may be difficult for me to fit in with people who have been around a while, especially if they are much younger than me (that darn "Age discrimination/discomfort" thing I/we sometimes experience) I am empathetic, attentive and love to laugh. It is my empathy that allows me to feed off your energy as we play. I believe that trust should be earned. If I do anything to disappoint/hurt you then I don't deserve you. if you trust me enough to invite me into your life, be it coffee or an exchange of emails. I won't do anything to betray that temporary trust because if I do, I will lose the opportunity to rock your world with you trusting me fully. I am a huge fan of Shibari, erotic photography and well designed dungeon furniture. I plan to post better examples of these that have impressed me. I will include a link to the artist (with their permission) so that you might enjoy their art too. To better my growth in this lifestyle, I will try to attend as many events as I can that are within driving distance and my limited budget. Although I am a visual learner, I can learn by listening if I try hard. I will do my best to listen to the experience of other kinksters. I will strive to not be drawn into personal attraction as I know that can be a concern to some. As some people wiser than me teach, I need to clear my mind and stay in the moment. Wish me luck 'cause my ADD and my impulse control are going to be challenges for me! I am becoming proficient with rope and rope-bondage (Shibari; Kinbaku) and would sincerely love showing my harnesses, hair corsets, hogties and rope gags to you. I am not ready to do suspension bondage yet, sorry... but soon! I have a paternal instinct and can be quite loving, nurturing and protective. I can be your Daddy but don't call me "Daddy" cause that's reserved for my daughters (not a rock-hard limit but close). You will have to be a pretty special babygirl for me to allow you to call me Daddy. I will not accept a sub or a play partner until after we have reviewed each others limits and I feel that I am worthy/ready to Top/Dom with you. Also, I will not approach women offering my personal services or affection. If you are curious about me, please send me a message here. I have heard it said among those more experienced than me that in this lifestyle, there are three female subs for every available male dominant. I like that average! Hard Limits: I am not Bi; no scat play; no "Roman showers" and I am not wired to be a sub, so don't go there.
Soft Limits: I am willing to be your daddy but you had better impress me bigtime if you want to call me "Daddy". I am not into "age play" but I can go there if it is important to you.

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8/23/2011 1:12:22 PM

OUR FIRST MEETING IN REAL LIFE

 

I've only heard your voice a handful of times but each time made me eager to breathe the same air as you. I feel like a kid waiting for Christmas morning.
I let you know a week ago that I was ready to come to see you. I hit the road shortly after and checked into a hotel just after lunch today. I called you as soon as I got settled into my room.
"Listen carefully", I said. "Yes Sir", you said.
"I want you knocking on my hotel room door within the next two hours. You will wear sexy clothing that includes stockings and heels. After we get a chance to see each other, we are going to an Asian restaurant to eat. Make sure you set up a safety call with your friend."
"Yes Sir", you said. I told you my room number and answered your questions about makeup. "Sexy but not trashy tonight. Tomorrow night you'll be trashy"
I was so eager to see you, I stopped breathing thinking of you. I took a nice shower and cleaned myself thoroughly and enjoyed a good shave. I laid out my dark dress pants, a white silk shirt and a silk tie. Then I settled down to watch the local news for a bit before dressing.
You knocked on my door just before the sports reporter came on. My face broke into the hugest smile I've had since my youngest daughter was born. I slipped on a bath robe and looked through the peep hole. You were looking a little nervous standing there in your purple dress. I opened the door quickly which seemed to startle you a bit. We hugged and shared a tender first kiss right there in the hallway. You started to step into the room. "Wait a minute my pet. Stand right there."
"Did you follow my instructions?" I could see your hard nipples through the material of your dress. I reached with both hands and rubbed them with the back of my knuckles. You moaned and leaned into my touch. "Hmmm, you seem ready for me my pet". the desire in your eyes was almost palpable.
"You get a 'good girl' for no bra. now turn around. Lift your dress and bend over." You obeyed nervously looking down the hall for witnesses. I put my hands on your hips and pressed myself against your fine ass. "Now, turn around and get on your knees." You obey with a big smile and a lick of your lips. You open my robe and reach for my cock. I hear "Hmmmm" as you draw me into your mouth. It doesn't take you long to get me rock hard and get me covered with your saliva. I hear the elevator open down the hall. "Stay exactly as you are. Don't move ", i say as I back into the room. I see you have a look of panic on your face. "...But" was all you could say. I whispered "I know this is your home town. We can be pretty sure that no one who knows you is in this hall tonight."
I gestured for you to be quiet and be still and slipped into the bathroom. I heard some people walk by and you said "Found it!" What a clever girl!
"Take your dress off right there", I order. You obey and pass me your dress. Dressed only in stockings, you glance nervously in each direction. I tell you to play with your nipples and i take out my raging hard erection and stroke it playfully. You rub your thighs together as you rub your hard nipples and stare at my throbbing erection. I hear the sound of a door and see your eyes go wide in panic and I tell you to run to my bed and lay on your back. Zoom! I close the door and walk to the bed to see you squirming on your back with your beautiful stockinged legs spread wide. "Are you wet?"
"Uh huh"
"Show me"
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Part II
As you lay back on my bed, with your legs wide and you lift your knees to your chest. "See how wet I am for you?" I admire your bald pussy and your swollen pussy lips that open you up wide for my inspection. I see a stream of your glistening juice flow down your perineum towards your rosebud .
you gaze into my eyes with a contented, yet horny smile as I touch the back of my knuckles to your hot inner lips. Your eyes pierce me with your desire as I slide my wet knuckles up to your clit. You rock your hips to make my access easier. I linger,barely touching your clit hood. You thrust your clit at my hand straining for my touch. I move my hand up to your bald mound and press down firmly. We continue our eye contact. I can see the almost desperate desire burning in your eyes. I rub my knuckles in a firm circle around your clit.
"Yes!" you whisper as you try to fuck my warm wet hand.

...Aaaand I move my hand up to caress your tummy. I smile as you growl at me. "Careful my pet, I am in charge here. There will by no comments from you until you cum. And, remember, you mustn't cum without permission" I walk to the head of the bed and buckle on a pair of purple leather wrist cuffs to your wrists. You test them to discover that they are securely tied to the headboard. I hear you whine in your bratty way as you pull on your restraints and I notice you bring your thighs together in an attempt to stimulate your pussy. "Ah! There'll be none of that, now!" I gently grab your ankle and pull it wide to reveal your aching pussy. I slide my other hand up your calf and caress the inside of your thigh. You thrust hungrily at my hand and i reward your efforts by putting a finger inside your craving wetness.

Aaaaand then I attach cuffs to each of your ankles. "fucker!" you say softly. "What was that my delicious pet?" "Yes Papi" You say with your bratty smile.
I stand at the foot of the bed and admire your horny body. I gaze steadily at your right nipple. I smile as it grows wrinkled and hard.I gaze down at your slippery pussy and lick my lips. You spread you thighs as wide as they will go and fuck the air. "What do you want my pet?" "Touch me!" you whisper.
"Yes, I can do that for you." I remove my robe and toss it to a chair. I lick two fingers and rub them around my nipple. "Like that? Do you want me to pay attention to your nipples?" "YES!" i hold the girth of my erect cock and stroke it forcing precum to drip onto the floor. I flex my muscles so it bounces in the air a few times. "Ohhh! looks like I'm ready for action, my angel". I kneel on the foot of the bed and place my hands on either side of your squirming hips. "Bring your pussy up to my tongue." You obey with a look of near desperation in your eyes. I lower my head and lick your perfect bald mound. "MMmmmmm" My tongue slides down your mound beside your clit and I bury it as deep as it will go inside your pussy. You rock and fuck my face with your desire. Wow! you taste so sweet! I lap my tongue on your pussy as i drink your juices and then I remember my mission... I look up into your eyes as I move my flicking tongue up towards your clit. I have never seen such desire! "Nope. not right now" and I move my head and talented tongue to your tummy. "This is what i was thinking of doing, my love" I tickle your belly button with rapid sideways flicks of my tongue. "Of course, it would feel different on your clit, wouldn't it?" I stare at your erect right nipple some more and lick my lips...

You move your right shoulder towards me as you try to get your nipple closer to my mouth. I open my mouth slightly and look into your eyes as I bend towards your nipple. I tenderly lick your breast around your nipple and then move to kiss your throat under your chin and around the left side of your naked neck. While I am doing this, I press my large tummy over your pussy as I slide up to your neck. The large purple head of my rock hard erection gently pokes at your wetness... and you moan and try to engulf me with your pussy.
"We need to talk my pet" "WHAT! NOW???" I'm sure you can see I'm having fun with your frustration. I press my cock a tiny bit farther forward. It is dangerously close to entering your craving pussy. "Remember I said that you may not cum without permission?" "Ghaaa! Yes, I remember. Is that going to happen today?" "Yes, my pet. You are going to cum so fast and so often, I don't think you will be able to ask permission every single time, so, just for today, you are free to orgasm as you desire.." You thrust your hips, barely managing to swallow more of my hardness. With a look of determination in your eye, you say, "Bring it!"
I pull my cock away a bit and slap your thighs with it as I kiss that spot on your neck. Another, whispering moan escapes your lips. I kiss up your neck and over your chin as I gently rub the knuckles of my right hand along your ribs to your left breast. I raise my head over your face and gaze into your eyes once again. "Are you in heat my pet?" My right fingers circle your left nipple. Your eyes open wide as I get closer to your nipple. I can sense you willing your nipple to touch my hand. "Unnngh" is all you say. I lower my lips to kiss below your nose. You turn your head to capture me in a hot wanting kiss just as my right fingers squeeze your left nipple. "Oooooh Yes!" you exclaim through our kiss.
I break the kiss and stop squeezing your nipple. I lower my lips to your hard left nipple and lick it, once, twice and twice more. Your left nipple is wet and hard. I look over to your right nipple and again into your eyes. I move my lips toward your poor neglected nipple grazing your cleavage with my tongue. I reach your nipple and pull away as you try to thrust it into my hot wet mouth.
I hear a tiny whimper. "No whining and no pouting, my pet." I reach down and rub my precum up and down your steamy slit. Do you want me to do this or to satisfy your poor nipple?" "Unnnngh!" "It seems to me that you want both my sassy pet. Nope, that's not gonna happen."
I press my tummy on your pussy and thighs. "Rock your hips if you want me to pay attention to your pussy." Quickly your stocking clad thighs spread wide as they can go and your pussy pushes up to my tummy. "Are you trying to fuck my stomach? I wonder if you have ever been this horny in your life." You raise your head and stare at me with wide desperate eyes. I smile and offer you a gentle chuckle of sympathy. And I lower my mouth to your tummy. My tongue slides towards your beautifully waxed baldness and down just beside your clit. I lap at your hot skin beside your hood and slide my tongue lower. I raise your knees up high as they will go but your restraints stop me from my goal.
"My pet, if undo your ankles, will you promise to behave?" Vigorous head nodding, "Yes! I promise!
After freeing your ankles, "Where do i want your legs?" Instantly, you throw your knees up high and spread yourself wide exposing your glistening, no longer pink pussy. "Good Girl!" I smile. I drop to my elbows between your hot thighs and administer a kiss to your perineum. I nudge your butt up with my fingers, you rock back even more so that I can lick your asshole and penetrate it with my tongue. More moaning and squirming. i slide my tongue up to the back part of your pussy opening and tenderly run circles around your opening gradually pressing more firmly. "Ummmmm!" i lick the outsides of your labia on both sides and move my fingers to your wet horny tunnel. I kiss the other side of your hood and dip one finger in to the first knuckle. "I like it when you moan like that." "Will you stop talking!... umm Sir?" and you rock your hips trying to fuck my finger.
I lick the insides of your labia and hum a deep low note in my throat. My tongue laps at your soaking wet fuck hole. I fuck you with my tongue as deep as I can go. My fingers caress and tease your ass. My left hand slides up your ribs to under your arms. I look into your eyes as you watch me bring you to the edge. My left hand cups your right breast. Your horny eyes dart to my hand. I can taste more of your pussy juice flow into my mouth. I squeeze your breast while carefully avoiding your nipple. I slide my mouth up to your hood and surround it with my lips, barely touching your hood with my tongue. You are desperately trying to fuck my face. I lift my wet shiny mouth away from your satisfaction and "You get to pick. Nipple or clit? Which do you want?"
"Fuck! I'm starting to hate you!" "Easy my pet, we don't say the 'H' word"
"Ghaaa!" you throw your head back in frustration. I lower my lips to surround your hood again. And I slip two fingers deep into your flowing love canal. i fuck your craving pussy with my fingers and squeeze your right nipple firmly and roll it around between my fingers. I lick just below your hood moving it upwards with my tongue. I try to look into your eyes but your head is rocking side to side as you try to cope with so many sensations at one time. I curl my two fingers up inside your pussy. I can feel the corrugated surface of your G-spot. I then do three things at the same time; I lightly lick your erect clitoris causing your hips to buck wildly; i roll your nipple between my fingers and I move my two fingers inside you in a "come here" motion pressing my finger pads firmly towards my mouth. I keep these actions going as I register your reaction. You body starts shaking like it was electrocuted. Your hips fuck my fingers and my mouth with the power of a mad woman and this raspy "YEESSSSSS!" comes out of your throat. I notice you start to calm down a bit and I turn my fingers to caress the inside of your pussy. I move my tongue down to lap at your juices as they flow past my fingers...
As you seem to be catching your breath, I flick my tongue rapidly from side to side and move it slowly up once more towards your sensitive clit. I hear you "Oh yeah! again!" I turn my fingers over to curl up to your G-spot and my vibrating tongue reaches your electrified clitoris. And you hurl once more over the edge. Your body shudders and your legs twitch as you cum over and over. You look at me in amazement seemingly trying to talk but I continue my ministrations through i don't know how many more multiple orgasms.
You whisper "enough! enough! holy fuck!" I stop and kiss your thighs and slide my body up beside you. I draw your right nipple into my mouth and your body shudders on one more orgasm. I undo your wrist restraints and hold you in my arms with your ear on my chest. I stroke your hair and hum a lullaby as your body gradually stops convulsing. You look up at me with a weak smile "what about you?" "you rest a bit my pet and then i will fuck you silly in your ass and your pussy. You've barely even started your multiples"
I see this deep thoughtful look on your face as the corners of your mouth curl up in this tiny little smile. "Hmmmm."
To be continued... (maybe)


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naughtycindy23
 
 Age: 22
 Greensburg, Indiana