Hi, I'm Matt - a decent guy who hasn't yet found the indecency that he's looking for.

BDSM has always been part of me, even when it was just nameless thoughts and feelings. Watching women tied up in actions films as a child and watching women tied up in fetish clubs as a young adult, these dark, subversive thoughts and desires have always been tempting me. So I wouldn't call myself a newbie. But I wouldn't call myself experienced either. Up until a few years ago, the world and people of BDSM seemed like a remote island - impossible to find. But then I was fortunate enough to find some friends that also had an interest in BDSM. Since then I've been with various friends to events like Torture Garden and KinkFest in London and SWAP and RUBS in Bristol. I adore the atmosphere, it really feels like home and it’s great to have friends that have a similar open mind.

But...I'm not one for taking part in open play in clubs and it does not help that I'm damn shy around new people. So, I still haven't found what I'm looking for - someone special to experience and explore all things kink with. After coming out about my kink, and three years of fetish clubs, I thought it was about time I got involved with the online community and see what may come...for more info:

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/p/F_N_9_9/