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Gay Male Submissive, 40,  Tucson, Arizona
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FHilbert - photo 1
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gearcincimaleRedneckNBama BiBear usmarineslave

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I like bondage, submission, leather, gags, discipline, chastity, hypnosis, muscles, shaving, electro, forced workouts and and other gear- and jock-related fetishes.  I want to try dehumanization too:  puppy play or robot training; maybe pony.

I am pretty inexperienced, and this profile was originally intended just to help me find an occasional hookup.  But the thought of permanent ownership is gradually growing in my mind -- but has only started.  More on that below.  Part of my inexperience means I want to explore different variations, to modulate how much sex, power-exchange, or domination goes into the mix.  I want to submit to your way and find out if I like it.

Ideally I would like to serve a strict, controlling, intrusive Master.  If you're interested, but not that intense, that's ok too.

I'd like to be controlled, but there are two ways to play this, submissive or rough.  Both are good, but if you'd like to try a kidnap or prisoner scene, I think I'd love that.

If I can't find a Master I'm willing to compromise.  I am mostly gay but kind of bisexual -- if you are a local non-pro Dominant Mistress who wouldn't even need to be concerned about my sexual gratification, drop me a line.  Sexuality is too complicated to fit into four fixed categories.  I would also like to find similar-minded fit guys under 60 who could be workout buddies or bondage buddies, sex optional.

I'd like a few tastes of a singletail sometime, but I don't think I'd want it as the main dish.  I generally like physical pain.

I don't like feminization, and I don't enjoy verbal humiliation.

I'd like to submit pretty deeply, but that requires some trust-building of course.  I don't mind submitting to a speech protocol, Sir, even from the first contact, but being pushy before we have a basis for trust is not going to get either of us what we want.

I am disease free, but safe sex only pls.  Tested HIV- in 7/2010.  No scat, that is a hard limit.

Ownership sounds like a dream to me still, and the fact that it could be a reality is a notion just now taking root now in my mind.  I think I might like that, want that, maybe need that.  But it's still a very new idea, and I need more certainty before we take measurements for a permanent collar.  I am pretty tied up with my work, so relocation is not possible for the next few years in any case.

Standard copyright law applies to the photos, needless to say.  (It applies to everyone's legit photos, regardless of whether they say anything about it.)












 Submissive Male



 6' 2"

 155 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male

Switch Male

Domme/Dom Couples

 Lives For:

 You tying me up

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 You punishing my gentials


 Bicycling (Expert)

 Camping (Expert)

 Running (Expert)


 Being placed in a cage by you

 You controlling my male parts

 Electrical Play

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Being gagged by you


 You putting me on a leash

 Mental Bondage

 Being allowed to be obedient to you


 You deciding when I'm allowed to have an orgasm

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 You telling me when I'm allowed to speak





 Anal Play

 Being blindfolded

 Chest Play

 You disciplining me with a cane

 Eye contact with you not allowed

 Being massaged

 Sensation Play

 You binding me with plastic wrap

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play

 Being spanked by you

 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation


 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics



 Political Activism




 Wax Play

 Curious About:

 Body Worship

 G-spot Stimulation

 Local BDSM Community

 Gas Masks

 Outdoor Bondage


 Lifestyle BDSM



 Erotic touch

 Conservative Politics


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Journal Entries:
9/25/2010 2:18:58 PM
Essay question:  analyze H. P. Lovecraft's short story "The Shadow over Innsmouth" as a parable of queer liberation.

8/14/2010 11:24:29 PM
The wall of silence.

A common scenario:  I'm trading messages with a Dominant, we seem to have common interests, in fact we seem to be getting close to a meeting -- then without warning, *click*.  Silence.

I would much rather have a short, sharp coup de grace:  "Sorry, boy, not interested anymore."  "Never mind, got your face photo and it just doesn't work for me."  "Found someone else."  "Forget it."  I'd rather take a gut-punch than bear a lingering feeling of, "What the hell happened?"  You don't owe me anything, of course, but if you treat others with respect I think you're more likely to find others treating you that way too.

EDIT TO ADD:  I've heard from one Collarme member that messages sometimes get dropped by the system, and fail to make it to the recipient.  If I suddenly ignore you, please call me out on it, because maybe a message got dropped and I'm not really intending to be an ass.

8/6/2010 1:35:53 AM
Permanent ownership:  something I hadn't thought about seriously when I made a profile for this site.  Still it's a radical notion to me.  I showed up here hoping to hook up with some masters and discover what kind of submissive I am, what I like and don't.  I'm pretty new to this scene and there is a lot of basic self-discovery for me to do.

I had heard of permanent slaves but I previously thought it was mostly a J-O fantasy, too rare to think about.  Now after seeing all the profiles here I realize it is quite real.  I am honestly considering this, radical as it may be.  But it won't be right away, and if it happens it will be with a Master I really respect through the many dimensions of life, not just sex+bondage.  One Master in particular has really stood out to me as having a high potential.

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