I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for a number of years and over that time I have become more extreme in my outlook and my desires and needs. Perhaps you know exactly what I mean as this seems to be what happens for many once bitten by the alternative lifestyle!! You want to go further and deeper exploring more and more. We all want to push our boundaries further and see what we are capable of - even Doms do that too!

Or perhaps you are a newbie wanting to be pushed and encouraged into darker places that you have often fantasised about? I have no interest in a long term realtionship as such, but ongoing arrangements are certainly possible - even desireable. I am looking to meet female subs (straight, bi or lesbian), plus sub/sub or Dom/sub couples.

Am I for real? Yes I certainly am - make sure you are too. Am I as scary as my profile might make me sound - no not really; but I like to create situations that work for us both. Don't be shy - I am not! I live in South East England and can accommodate or travel a fair distance around the UK for the right connection. Photos readily available should how I look be of concern to you!

Just call me Mike - for now!