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Pan Female Dominant, 42,  Austin, Texas
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Intelligent Black Domme whose experience has shaped firm ideas of what she doesn't want.

Stupidity is most unwelcome. BDSM is centered around the largest erogenous zone we possess, our brains. Being intelligent, articulate, and able to think for yourself are all pluses. Anything else is unacceptable.

Bad hygiene is also high on my list of things I find less than desirable(there is nothing more repellent than bad breath, body odor, and/or just being plain filthy). If you don't brush your teeth multiple times a day and people have kindly pulled you aside to mention that you smell on more than one occasion, take some of the time you're cruising sites like this to baptize yourself in a new religion. It's called soap and water (toothpaste is not optional). If you aren't sure about whether or not your hygiene is good enough, please err on the side of caution and follow the above instructions. For the same reason, smokers need not contact me unless they plan on quitting immediately and permanently.

A couple of clues that you might be dirty include not having been to a dentist in years or having roaches crawling along your walls. If moving a piece of furniture reveals mounds of dust bunnies or dirt piles, if there is mold growing in your bathroom or you haven't cleaned said bathroom in weeks or months... or years, then you can be assured you are dirty (and not in a good way). If you are hesitant to invite people over because of how you live or an odor hits you every time you cross the threshold when you come home, you need to stop reading now and get to cleaning, hire a cleaning service, or get new, dirtier friends who appreciate you just the way you are.

Being an Adonis is unnecessary, but taking care of yourself is. Not being able to climb stairs without being out of breath makes for poor service. Having a stroke in the middle of play can be kind of a buzz kill. If you can't look down and see your feet, it's just not healthy. If you have "let yourself go" and are one cheeseburger away from a heart attack, join a gym and serve the treadmill for a while. Your future Dominant will appreciate it and you all the more. How can you "take care" of your Dominant if you can't take care of yourself?

Pathological or recreational liars can stop reading now. Being able to submit involves being able to be open, honest, and vulnerable. BDSM isn't for you, please consider LARPs or RPGs. If you have enough emotional baggage to start your own railway, focus your energies on removing the excess, so that one day you might be truly able to serve someone well. Drama Queens and Kings can hold court elsewhere; life is just naturally complicated enough without adding more confusion and distress. Perhaps sneaking around on a spouse or significant other makes sense to you, but it constitutes dishonesty as well. I have no patience for deceit.

Being inexperienced is not a negative, but vacillation is. If you aren't sure of who you are or are torn with indecision about whether this lifestyle is for you, remove yourself from the playing field until you make up your mind. There is nothing wrong with not being sure, just be honest about it.

I am sure that cyber and long distance play can be fulfilling, but isn't something I desire. If you can't meet in person, you aren't for me.

Last, but definitely not least. One's disposition is very important. Having a terrible personality is terribly unbecoming. That can manifest itself in so many ways. Being egotistical, overbearing, demanding, temperamental... the list goes on and it doesn't make for the best Ds dynamic. Tied into that would be one's emotional and mental health. If you are diagnosed with some mental illness, please be sure to state so. Some things are workable, others aren't. Once again, honesty is the key.

If you have read this far and I haven't hit a nerve, then welcome! Let me tell you more about me. I am attractive, spirited, creative, passionate, and extremely kinky. My enthusiastic nature and my chronic curiosity has shaped my abilities nicely. There isn't much I haven't tried and not much I don't enjoy (lots of negatives for such a positive statement). I am not good at being a stern and forbidding Mistress, my sense of humor is more cutting than my tongue. I like having fun and pretending to be something I'm not constitutes role playing. I'm more wicked when I am in high spirits. People have learned to beware the twinkle in my eyes. If you want to know more, write me and let me know you read my ENTIRE profile.











 Dominant Female



 5' 7"






 Lives For:



 You worshiping my body


 You massaging me (Expert)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 You servicing me with your mouth (Expert)

 You worshiping me in stockings (Expert)

 Dominating you with a strap-on (Expert)

 Gardening (Expert)

 Herbalism (Expert)


 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)


 Art Galleries


 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera

 Movies (Expert)


 Musical Theater


 Travel (Expert)



 Yoga (Beginner)

 Violating your rear (Expert)

 You begging (Expert)

 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 Tying you up


 Disciplining you with a cane (Expert)

 Keeping you locked in tamper evident chastity at all times (Expert)

 Electrical Play (Expert)

 Enemas (Expert)

 G-spot Stimulation

 Disciplining your genitals (Expert)

 You being my domestic servant

 Erotic Hypnosis (Expert)

 Erotic touch (Expert)

 Gags (Expert)

 Gas Masks (Expert)

 Hoods (Expert)

 Placing you in masks (Expert)

 Medical fetish play (Expert)

 Modern Primitivism (Expert)

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me (Expert)

 Treating you like an object

 Total control of your orgasms (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Pantyhose (Expert)

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Expert)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Expert)

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play (Expert)


 Spanking you (Expert)

 Suspension Bondage

 Watersports (Expert)

 Wax Play (Expert)


 Arcade Games

 Card Games (Expert)

 Puzzle Games (Expert)

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Simulation Games (Expert)

 Alternative Medicine

 Aromatherapy (Expert)

 Cooking (Expert)

 Karaoke (Beginner)


 Photography (Beginner)

 Sewing (Beginner)

 Soap Making (Beginner)

 Intellectual Discourse





 Writing (Expert)

 Classical Music

 Hip Hop Music


 Opera Music



 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes


 Amusement Parks


 Coffee Shops

 Fishing (Beginner)

 Flea Markets

 Gambling (Beginner)

 Garage Sales

 Renaissance Faires



 Hiking (Beginner)

 Horseback Riding

 Martial Arts

 Pilates (Beginner)

 Rollerblading (Beginner)

 Ultimate Frisbee (Beginner)


 Collaring you

 Feminizing you (Expert)

 Eye contact with me is not permitted

 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play

 You kissing and worshiping my feet

 Hair Pulling (Expert)


 You at the end of my leash

 Wearing masks

 Going to munches

 You worshiping me with recitations and rituals

 Sensation Play (Expert)

 Deciding what you wear

 Role Playing


 Board Games (Expert)




 Country Music

 Folk Music

 New Age Music

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music

 Rock Music

 Swimming (Beginner)

 Volleyball (Beginner)


 Bicycling (Beginner)

 Camping (Beginner)

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Public Play

 Curious About:



 Online Chatrooms (Beginner)



 Cybering (Beginner)

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Journal Entries:
11/6/2009 1:51:50 PM
It's been a while since I played with anyone.  Too long, really.  I got a little burned out (never thought that would happen to me).  I closed my dungeon and gave everything a big, fat break.

Of course, what I know is the case for others is true for me.  I can't leave it alone.  I crave the power exchange.  I need to be in control.  The method is not important, needles, electricity, ropes, whip, flogger, cane, or my bare hands, all that matters is feeling the sweet capitulation and immersing myself in the surrender given to me.

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